Introduction

In the matter of course, you feel worried about some problems. So, you should better know that being worried is not the solution. You should understand that as compared to the previous generation, in today’s world Children are facing more adverse problems in their life. Being in Single family and joint family the problem which the child is facing is of Sharing. If the child has grown up in single family, then child don’t easily share any things with others. Slowly-slowly this habit of not sharing with anyone is developed and then they are bound for not sharing anything with others. This loneliness is always dangerous to that child.

Teach your child to share

If you want your child to share anything with others, so for that first you have to start sharing with your child. The place where the child is alone has habit of monopoly. So, to change this habit, parents should come forward and together should try to share the things. For example, if you are giving one chocolate to your child, then you should ask him one bite of that chocolate. You should make your child understand that while sharing the love increases

Teach your child understand to good things

In today’s generation, the problem which the child faces is of Concentration. The child would spend hours on Computer to play games, but they won’t concentrate on the homework or at their household work for hours. From this thought you would have understood that the problem is not of Concentration but of Consent. In the activities where the child’s consent lies, there they would spend long time. While playing video games, the child’s mind as well as the fingers works very fast and due to this, child could spend hours and hours on it. The Synchronization between brain and fingers would be good, that’s why the child could spend hours on playing video games. What you have to do is set the time table. You have to give liberty to do the child’s consent activity, when the child does some good work, which you want your child to do. For example, give him liberty to play for extra half an hour, if your child go to the local store and buy few things for house. You will see how the child does those work very quickly. Also, it is not all good for any child to spend hours and hours on computer system in playing video games. The mind doesn’t develop while playing video games. Sometimes you have to carefully look at what sites your child spend time, if your child is using internet. Children are un-intelligent; they don’t know what is correct or wrong for them. You should spend some quality time with your child. 

Obstinate of your child

Some Children are very Obstinate or Stubborn. Sometimes they are very obstinate at particular things and until they don’t get that, child never leaves you. They start doing nuisances in front of their parents. This is problem which has arrived from parents only. This is problem of unnecessary love. When their child demands anything, parents fulfill it. Child has understood that if they will cry then parents are surely going to fulfill their demands. This is not a good way to fulfill the demands. In this way, the child will never understand what is correct or wrong. You have to be Single minded in such issues. The child should understand once you said no, and then there is no way out. You should understand that child is always clever. They can easily identify your behavior and could take your advantage. For example, child is fond of noodles and chips and due to his health you don’t want to give, then you should make him understand. Don’t directly say no. You should make them understand the benefits of food items. Some time table would be maintained to eat fast food and healthy items. Restriction and discipline should be there in them. They will themselves understand what is good and what is bad.

Today’s generation children do not value money. 

In some houses, parent work outside. They don’t have time to count the things arrived in house or gone outside. Some children of such parents think that my parents are very rich and I could spend the money leisurely. The child’s liking is fulfilled before the child demand comes. The result arrives that the child has not value of money from their childhood. If the parents would have kept control, then the child would have understood on what things there are restrictions. With love and affection, make your realize the real meaning and value of money. Tell your child the about how difficult is to have those things which he/she is using leisurely. There are many children in this world, who just dream of such beautiful and costly things. With love and caring, every child can understand. 

Children’s telling lies

There are various children who tell lie about their school activities and results. Some children tell lies with no reason. Slowly-slowly this becomes their habit. In school when teacher says something to the child, the child doesn’t tell those things to their parents. Some children don’t show their test papers to their parents and even sign the test papers by their own. Even they wouldn’t hesitate to sign in their diary where parent’s signature is needed. Teachers are very surprised and think that why don’t parents giving any reactions? When the truth came outside, then parents get to know the real nuisances of their child.

Parent’s involvement in School

When you caught your child first time saying lie, at that you should restrict and give warning to your child. You need to take strict restriction to your child. Don’t brush aside the lies which your child tells. If you will be brush aside, then it may be possible your child will develop habit of telling lies. Some parents don’t give a proper care on their children. They don’t look out what is happening in their school. Parents don’t involve in the activities like some functions in school or in teacher meetings. Parents should have full concentration on what is happening in their children’s school. At dinner or at lunch, when parents eat together with children should ask about the school work and discuss everything about their children’s school. Parents should never leave any Parents Teacher meeting. You have to get in touch with your children’s class teacher and should ask the performance of your children in school. Such type of Contact is very much necessary. 

Being Socialized

Not being socialized is also one of the problems, which is spreading in today’s generation’s children very speedily. Being away from Functions and do not meeting the relatives, only meeting their close friends is also the common problems of children. From the childhood, the child what see is what they learn. If the child has seen their parents meeting their relatives and other friends, then that would be normal to the child, but if the child has not seen their parents meeting their friends and close relatives then the child will not understand the importance of meeting with relatives and other friends. The child will also like to live as their parents are living. If your child is not having any feeling of meeting other relatives and friends, then inspire your child to get into those relations of meeting friends and other relatives. Become friend with your children. If possible, try to know the background of the friends of your children. In this way you would know that in which kind of environment you children wants to live or living. If parents are not in touch with relatives, then you should increase your closeness with relatives. Looking at you, Children will also change the feelings of meeting with people and they will also start meeting their friends. People have now a day’s become workaholic, which is spoiling their social environment and do not meet people. Their social life has almost finished. If not at weekend, then you should at least go once or twice to your relatives. This also makes your relation better with relatives and friends and also it’s good for future.

In this modern world, Children’s violence and anger is not tolerable. So, that’s why from childhood, parents should keep their child away from such toys which creates violence. Also, you should try to keep away your child from the violent movies. Parents should also be careful that they don’t have violent behavior in home, especially in front of their children. Parents need to control their house, with proper care and love. Your children are your future. So, you not only give them money, but also give some time to them. You need to spend a lot of quality time with your children. You should understand your child and you only have to make your child understand about different things. You only have to teach your children how to live a life with good habits

• Written by Ronark Bhardwaj.
• In category Parenting and Child Development.
• 11 years ago.

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