Cooked Problems Have No solutions
Our life is full of worries and problems. But the interesting thing is that most of these problems are cooked by us. We have made ourselves habitual of leading a dramatic life. The height of human tendency is that despite of having our own life fully loaded with problems, we deliberately poke our nose in the life of others. It is seen that nearly 90% of families entertain unhealthy discussions in their house based on the problems of others. This eventually results in rough debates thus pushing every individual of the family in the den of frustration and the gain is zero.
It is required to concentrate only on our problems rather than others. Instead of enlarging the problem by mere discussion we should try to solve the problem logically.
Every problem has a bilateral view. For example, a man gets worried if he is not promoted and he even gets worried if gets promotion. So where is the scope for solution? Now let us first discuss on the issue of not getting promoted.
a) Why one does not get promoted?
Following factors should be thought of:-
1) Am I eligible for promotion?
2) Am I capable for promotion?
3) Whether my work profile fits in the promotion cadre?
4) Have I taken sufficient efforts to gain promotions?
If these factors analyzed the percentage of distress will definitely decrease. Briefly speaking, problem solving is not important but the proper approach towards the problem is essential and the problem will be automatically solved.
b) What if one gets promotion?
Great! It’s definitely good news. But no, the concerned person will not be happy. The reasons are:
1) Promotion will lead to transfer.
2) Transfer means marching to a new place, staying away from the family.
3) The possibility cannot be denied that the boss may be strict.
4) The atmosphere, climate, eating habits etc.
These reasons are sufficient to discourage us. But we should not fall prey to these baseless reasons. In today’s reign of unemployment, our job should be an asset for us and we should enjoy it to the fullest. We should firmly decide that it if I get promotion I have to opt for transfer, so that we will not feel sad getting promoted. Like as we see a sign board before a speed breaker, which is a provision to control the speed. In the same way, problems are part of life and we should have the provision to fight with them and find solution. To adjust with the life is the only option.
Nowadays load shading is a major problem. But we have no other alternative but to adjust with it. To handle the situation with ease, we choose to use the electronic items prior to load shading schedule. Similarly alertness, thriftiness, savings is required in life. The happiness and satisfaction depends on our thoughts. One who is able to adjust can live in satisfaction.
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