How to make conversation?
All living beings communicate through symbols. But man engages in conversation. Therefore, it is important to know how to make a conversation. It is an essential of good manners.
Nice talking and good speaking
Conversation is the art talking, so that people are attracted to you and they want to speak to you. If you don’t know how to speak to people, people may not like to talk to you.
Slow voice and sweet voice
The first, step then, is the voice. It must be soft, gentle and sweet. If you talk loudly, angrily or harshly, nobody will come to you.
Language – using words
Next language comes. It seems to be the fashion these days to use harsh words in ordinary conversation. It is sounds neither good not pleasant. It is simply bad manners. Both your tone and words should be gentle. That alone is the mark of refinement. Control yourself and your tongue in angry time. That is the one good method.
Conversation depend on age
Conversation depends upon a person’s age, position and status. That is why we must speak to elders with respect, no matter who they are. Even the words we choose to use must reflect the respect we feel for others. This also reveals a lot about the background our family.
Don’t go speed to talk. Before talk, think and talk.
You must have often come across people who are very talkative. They talk so much that they sound don’t let others have any chance to talk. They love the sound of their own voice. Naturally, they have neither the time nor the interest to listen to another person.
This is no way to make conversation. You must talk. But it is equality, if not always but sometimes important to listen. Conversation is a two-way traffic. It involves talking and listening.
Just because you talk more, it does not mean that others are listening. It does not mean that you have a greater influence. May be, you are just boring the listener. You must not monopolies conversation and make it a one-man show.
Talk with respect
Speak carefully and correctly. Speak without dragging in unnecessary topics. Do not go talking about your own self and your situations and circumstances. These are some important aspects of convection. If you know how to start and make a conversation, you will never be short of friends. You will never have to wait to be introduced to anybody. You will be able to makes friends by yourself.
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