Life is all about compromise
Life is all about compromise
This story is about a college student who is from poor family. It’s his life story till now. Story started from the ending of school.
I have just finished my 12th class exam and I have to think about my future and have to choose course. I am from the commerce field and I want to do b.com from Delhi University. My family cannot afford the tuition classes fees because of financial problems. My dad is peon from last some years and do some part times work to earn some extra money. I have a sister and little brother. Because of financial problem I have to start preparing at home for many courses entrance exam. I am preparing for B.B.A and C.S. I am not able to crack the exam of C.S and not able to get a reputed college of B.B.A. So, I have selected B.com as my graduation course. I got admission in B.com after many problems. I live in U.P and I have to go to Delhi for my studies. I want to live alone in Delhi but when I get to know the rent of rooms available in Delhi. I am shocked and the rent is too high about Rs.7000 for one month only one room and kitchen and my family cannot give me 7000 Rs. Just only to live there. So, now I have to live in hostel of my college. The boys of hostel are bad. There are some boys who are good and I want to live with good boys. So, I can study on time, eat on time etc.
My first day in college
I get up early at 6 o’clock and I am living in hostel with my two room mates. I am ready to go for college to attend my classes. I reach my college before 9 A.M. People around me look very happy and enjoying a lot with their friends. When I attended my first class I am little bit upset because there is an introduction after the class and I heard that they ask so many questions. When I am standing ahead in my class and giving my introduction to my seniors. They are throwing many questions on me and I really feel humiliated. Many days the same introduction with other seniors I am fed up from this now and I decided not to go to college until this introduction session is not over. After 10 days later I go to the college and thanks to god there are no more introductions with any one. I talk very less. I want to live alone many times. Have done some big compromises in my life.
Three Biggest compromises of my life
When I get admission in college I want to make some good friends. I meet with some friends and now I have many friends in the college. But there are some special with them I spend my most of time. We live in a group. There are two girls and three boys including me. One girl is close to me we talk so much whenever we are together. When we started talking there is no serious friendship between us. But now out friendship is strong. We always sit together, eat together, and go out together and everything. We are happy in our life. But after some months the student of my class and other student of college think that we are in relationship. But there is nothing like that between us. The people thinking is really so cheap and they are speeding rumors about us. One day I told her all about and she said you are just my friend the why to worry about. But I am really worried about her and her image in college. After some time we started getting so much comment on us and she does not feel well whenever something happened like this. When I am fed up from this I decided to live with other friends and I leave her. I really feel lonely and I felt like there is something missing in my life. But I have to understand and have to see many things like: - her image, I am from poor family and she is from rich and I leave her and decided to go ahead in my life. This is the first compromise of my life after school.
I have interest in singing. After leaving her I joined some singing class near my hostel for maintain the expenses of my singing classes I work in call center after my college hours and earn some part time money. When I started singing my family doesn’t know anything about that and I do not want to tell them because I know they will never allow me to join the singing classes. But one day I told them and that is my biggest mistake. They started scolding me that we send you in college for studies and you are doing anything else over there. They told me you have to study and some job after completing you study. Singing will not help you anywhere in your career. They started forcing me to leave the singing classes and one day after thinking so much I leaved singing classes and after leaving singing because of my family pressure I am really in stress and I am not being able to do anything for many days. This is my second compromise.
After that I got very less marks in my first year. My family is really very disappointed from me. They scold me very hard and said many things to me. You are not there for studies; you are just doing fun over there and all. I feel really bad about and they started giving me less money. So, I cannot do anything else in college except studies. After some days, the money is not enough for me and I told my family because of less money I have to skip my one time meal how could you think that I am doing fun here and I told you I am really in stressed situation and really helpful. If you are not going to send money then I will quit my course in middle. They directly said me leave it you cannot do anything and as they said this line. I dropped my B.com and back to my home. Now I am nothing just 12th pass and my one year wasted in college.
These are three big compromises which I have done in my life and I am really in bad condition. I lost everything friends, singing and career. Now I am thinking to do some part time job. I do not have any other option in my life now.
I hardly suggest you never do anything in pressure of any one other wise you have to face many problems.
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