Working with People
Human is a social Animal and we are surrounded by People all the time. Its almost impssible to live alone. There is always as time when we have to interact with the people whether its out work, family or friends and every day we deal with them. We need to setup a proper connection with each other to make a nice social circle. And the problem people facing today are setting up the things proprerly at their workplaces. We are so busy in our work or so much self centered that we don't feel like interacting well and everythime we have a thought that i have to go ahead and in that attitude we are losing many things.
So how do we create a connection and how do we interact well. There is no golden rule to that but yes there are few small things which we can work upon can reallly bring up the good change and that will be impacting our both personal and proffessional lives.
CARE
Thee first step to build a good relationship is to let people know that you do care about them and you indeed will be cared in return because love is like the nature rule: " Do good and Find good". I remember, once my old friend came to my house and he told me to keep in touch with other old friends and I said: "Man they know i love them" so its ok. He told me yes: "You keep loving them without getting in touch and the'll keep loving you from there without knowing that you care or not". We need to tell them that yes we are here for them when they need and we do care. Belive it or not, people love to hear that.
Be Social rather Techincal
Our Technical skill are the pillars of our professional career. Without them we are worth nothing. So our whole life we keep building our technical skills but in one way or ther other we keep ignoring the social skills which is also required at ever spehere. After all its people who ultimately you gonna end up with. You skills don't have emotions and they are not going to talk to you that its good that you are pursing me. Its people who are going to be there, so deal with them properly and interact as much as you can. That will also help in improving both skills as you social skills might take you to some one who can also help you techincally.
Work on Saving Relationships
Its very easy to end an relationship and walk out of it. But its very difficult to maintain them. Endure them. Once a relationship is broken, you can put a patch to fix it but they will be visible and they will keep reminding you of what you have did. Relationships need lot of respect, trust and sacrifice. You need to take stand for people you care so that can be around you when you need them. Make such kind of relationships that when you are going to sleep in night you can sleep with a trust that yes people are there to take care for oyur family if you don't wake up tomorrow.
Set Bounderies
If you want to maintain you self-respect then maintain a boundary for your self. One should setup a paramter aroundhimself that people should care not to cross. You should not any kind any kind of bad behaviour just to save a relationship. People should understand you and they should be clear about what to talk and what not to talk about with you. Although we should not be very rigid but certain bounderies should be there else people will start taking you forgranted. Respect other people boundries also, if you want yours to be respected.
Be Yourself
That's the Golden Rule for any good relation. You don't want any fake personality around you and neither do other people want. In today's world everyone is smart enough to guess who's who. Even you can ditch them today but they will understand you eventually because there is a energy which everyone creates and if you are not being yourself then you'll just create a negative aura around you and will try to fake what you are not or pretend to do what you don't. Just be Genuine. Its the golden mantra for being in a good relation. People feel save around genuine people and they love them.
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