Educated Youth of modern times degrade their parent’s abilities and achievements
Parents are the ones who have given us the essence and reason for living and we all know we are indebted to our parents in million ways. Parents are the ones who make our lives worth living and they are the only ones who try their level best to fetch their children best education and best resources to become the most successful person on the earth. They do lots of sacrifices for us and in return they only expect love from their children.
In modern times the parents are keen to make their children highly qualified and high earning professionals in huge Multinational corporations, and parents are full of pride by their child's success in the young age. I have written this article basically on those youth of today who have become arrogant and insensitive instead of being thankful and generous towards their parents achievements and sacrifices.
I have observed in my nearest surroundings that nowadays young boys and girls are earning handsomely at a very young age and how they boast in front of their parents about pressures and stress of Multinational corporations. They humiliate their parents and term them as a simple and low profile employees of their times and they make their parents feel that they had fixed job and salary but multinationals are rich payers and demand intelligence and lots of time and devotion.I have seen parents getting shattered and completely broken by their children's arrogance and attitude. This is a very common problem now days. Boys and girls are earning lots and lots of money in big companies and huge corporate giants and are becoming ruthless and heartless to their parents.
The solution is that parents should always teach their children humility along with success. They should not boast about their children and pamper them in such a way that one day their children themselves start degrading their parents. And children should also learn to respect their parents because ultimately whatever we achieve is all due to our parent's efforts and devotion. Children should accept this reality that it is because of their parent's time, devotion and resources one gets success in life. Nothing can be accomplished on our own. It is the combined effort of both parents and children that one gets happiness in life.
The ultimate solution is with God who has created mindsets of youth in such a way that they have given all the credits of their success to themselves. God can only enlighten such children who ignore their parents' constant services to them throughout their lives. And God should make parents practical in modern times that not to trust and boast about your children every time. They may break your trust and you may lose them in due course of time if you are over possessive and caring for them.
Parents should adopt balanced approach towards their successful children. They should become practical and realistic instead of becoming emotionally trapped. This is harsh reality and very few people dare to write it. I am initiating so that in today's modern times I can wake up those parents who are blind in their children's love so much that they are bearing all their arrogance and selfishness.
The lust for money and security in the long run also has stopped parents from raising the voice against their insensitive and proud children which I feel is absolutely wrong. The ultimate wealth of anyone is his self respect and it should be preserved and protected by all means. Money may last for few years but respect will last for years and years. Parents should make themselves self sufficient and strong so that they do not have to bear disrespect of their children during old age as there is no guarantee that parents will get a fair treatment in the long run from such kind of children who have no concern and humility for their parents today.
I only wish to write that successful modern youth of today should respect parents achievements and innumerable services towards them and and also want to wake parents of today' s youth who are becoming emotional fool and tolerating the nuisances of their successful but insensitive children. Love of parents is love of God and those who are unable to show love and respect towards their parents should undergo emotional counselling and I pray to God to grant all of us the warmth of love of our parents throughout our lives.
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