Tips to make friends!
Friends are really important for us to keep us relaxed in life. People do share their secrets with them which they can’t share with anyone else. Even they are the ones who help us when we are in any difficulty. I have lots of friends and I am proud to have them as they always stand in support for me whenever I ask them and even I always remain ready to help them when I see them getting in trouble and that’s life we have to help people if want to seek help from them. But not many people have friends there are people who don’t know how to make friends. Its not that difficult I am giving some tips for them and hope it would be help them and they would make lots of friends following these:
Spend more time with people surrounding you
It’s a fact that if you devote more time with some specific group then it is more likely that you would be able to make friends from that group. As I too do that and most of my friends are either from school/college time or the place where I worked or working. Therefore its better to try to make friends which you think you could be able to devote time with.
Join some organization/social group which interest you
Its good to join some group of the same interest that you have. I co-relate this with an example like my father is retired from government services 6 years back and in the starting he used to get bored while sitting at home whole day. He started doing yoga in the morning and joined a group who used to do Yoga in the park and that way he made lot of friends and now he has so many friends from that group that now he does not feel bore being at home too as he has several friends to get along with.
Talk to people
I have noticed that people who are talkative make friends easily than the people who don’t and are shy. Some people don’t even feel shy to talk with the strangers they just smile and start talking to them. This is good way to make new friends but one should also make sure that the stranger with whom they talk should be worth enough to be a friend.
Get together
In many get together we find some new people and we make them friends if we talk to them. It happens with me many times whenever I go somewhere in small functions I meet lot of new people and make new friends there by communicating with them.
Be a good listener
It is always said that when a person listens to people he/she is liked by people. Consider the case of an organization where the person who listens to the problem of a subordinate is always liked by him than those who don’t and just ask them to work and meet targets.
Many of the people make friends at work place so it’s not a bad idea to have friendship with your colleagues or subordinates. I too have lots of friends at my work place I do get a benefit of having a friendly environment in the office too due them.
Friendly nature
It is said that those people who have positive attitude towards life are likely to make friends compared to those who have the habit of crying even on the small issues so be broad minded and take things not very seriously people will definitely get attracted towards you ending up with the friendship.
Many qualities like loyalty, politeness, willing to help others are certainly the qualities which always attract people so we must try to have these qualities to get friends.
Hope this will help you all to get friends I know its not at all easy but we can try some of the tips who knows we may get few friends added in the list by applying them.
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