I know you love but they should know it

Most people think themselves loving, caring and understanding while dealing with their loved ones but that is not enough. Yes, you may feel surprised but that is true that unless you show what you feel your love has no value. People love to feel loved and be reassured while their loved ones display it openly. This is fine if you are, a loving and caring person but make sure that the people you love do know and understand it with your behavior else you are going to find yourself on a loser’s end.

Some people like ‘show business’ even in relations also although some others find it soothing because they are happy that way if you show your love in different ways and trust me that is not related in between husband-wife or girl-boy type relations only. Please find here are a few suggestions those would turn you into more loving without doing much extra efforts. You only have to be a little more cautious but the difference that it would bring shall be well beyond your imagination.

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You must let them know that you love them

I know you love them, really do but do you respond them in a proper way or you love them in an old-fashioned style of ‘love by heart’ is the best love. Come on friends, you are going to stand nowhere in this age where ‘I love you’ is the most common sentence that they want to hear even while you are in your sleep. So, never forget to express your love in words, as a mere smile of affection is no more enough in this age of showmanship.

As soon as you chant an ‘I love you’ your near and dear ones feel immensely happy and not only happy but they find you all the more attractive at ones. I am not aware about the reasons but that’s how things seem to move these days. 

Beware-

never look like as if you doing it under any obligation, else the whole exercise would be wasted. 

Reminder-

This is neither gender specific nor meant for your girl friends but even your own daughter comes into this category.

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A typical situation

If you are accepting a gift from some one special and at this point I mean any one special be your relatives, friends, family members or the very extra special one (wink) you should always keep in your mind that this is not the gift that is important but the feeling, of the person who is giving that gift. The people who love you makes all their efforts, emotions and feelings and yes maybe sacrifices too arranging those gifts, which they consider perfect according to occasions. You should be as matching and look welcoming while accepting the gift that the person who brought that gift should feel that feels satisfied and that the gift was perfect. That is an immense pleasure for the person who gives a gift.

What not to do- Never neglect any one directly or indirectly if he or she forgets to wish you on any particular occasion as that were common with human being to miss some thing in a crowded place. He may not have any thing in his mind at that particular point but if you will behave in a neglecting way to him that may make him feel too embarrassing, which may prove harmful for your future relations as well. In addition, there is no need to make any one remind in a taunting way if he forgets to bring or could not bring a gift for you due to any specific reason behind that. Gift is not that important as the presence of the person. Criticizing a person or making fun of some one who loves you is neither suggested nor healthy for your future relations, lust look at his feelings and the time he spared to come and greet you. Show him your gratitude for his presence even if he did not bring a present. That is going to make him a big friend who’ll always love you with more respect

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You should have time for your special ones

Telling some one that he or she is your special one is not enough you should spend some quality time rather with your loved ones and quality time means while you have nothing else on your mind but the person you are spending you time at that particular point of time. Some people despite spending time with their loved ones are in their work place virtually. That is not quality time and is quite easily noticeable.   

If you happened to be with your loved ones and talking with your clients using a cell phone all the while would certainly give them bad feeling to the person who expected so much while he/she came to meet you. In case you are working on your laptop while talking to your friend, looking at him just occasionally is not the right way. If the person feels that you ignored him or her intentionally even if, you did not that is going to give yourrelations a bad turn. So, never hurt the feelings of your friends by ignoring them or not attending them properly

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Be prepared to help your friends

This is a hard job helping others in present circumstances but this is one of the best ways to keep your friendship in good shape. There is another aspect of the matter that most people remain your friends as long as you help them but when the roles reversed, you usually feel disappointed. However, if you help some one and even get a simple ‘Thanks’ you should feel satisfied as that is symbol of admission of the help you offered. 

Actually when you asked, some one in stress ‘may I help you?’ that in itself is a big help to the one who is feeling not comfortable at that particular point of time. However, I would not suggest you to do the same with persons having selfish, lazy, the ones not keeping their promises  and jealous type and keep them in your list of friends whom you want to help selflessly. They in fact use you most of the time for their personal gains and try to make you the target of their evil designs. Beware of such persons, who are everywhere more than the good ones although they sound like your friends but in fact worst than enemy. Never help such persons unless must and this is better to keep a safe distance.touch

Magic of touch 

No, this is not in the sense of erotic touch but the touch that makes you feel soothing and providing comfort (Remember ‘Jadu Ki Jhappi ). While you meet some one and wish him, you can very well take a step further and shake hands with them. On the other hand, if you are comfortable, (they too) can hug them as well (I mean be prepared to have a thrashing if they do not like your act- wink) But a touch must be real and soothing else a formal touch has not much to convey. On a serious note, a hand on the hands of your loved one conveys more than thousand words.  


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