Introduction

For the Mental growth of kids, it is very important that parents give their child love and support. You should not give them pressure, rather they should learn by their own to handle themselves. They should learn by their own to handle different situation even in adverse condition. There is certain situation from which the children go through like Parent’s beating, Anger of Teacher, Pressure of tuition. Every Child has to suffer or go through these situation and they should better know to handle them. Parents should teach them to handle the situations, but they should put this sort teaching in habit. They should themselves have to bear and learn to handle the tough situations. This will help them in their future life. Children should not be given pressure, because what happens is that the pressure directly affects the Physical body and metal stress increases. If you want to make your children smarter and brighter, then you should be careful in looking around them, but it is also very important that you have a very friendly nature with your children. Parents have to take care of their children in such a way that they could turn themselves and bear all the good and bad circumstances.

Do not pressurize

Whether it is the matter of studies or any other work, parents should not force or give them pressure in any circumstances. In the modern life, according to the age of children, there is more pressure on them. In school, there is a competition of getting good marks. At home, the pressure of maintaining the good image in front of relatives and neighbors and at the Social events, the pressure of proving the best in curricular activities. Parents sometimes do not understand the real priorities of their children. Parents should understand their children’s liking and choice and according to that they should handle them. Parents should also not their children with others. Comparison creates division in between you and your children. Handle everything with Care. You should make your children understand about the wrong and correct thing. Give them knowledgeable points which they should remember for long time. Give them some examples of good people who have worked hard in their life and become very successful. You could also give them some examples, which live around you and have achieved a lot in their career. Parents should give them time to understand the importance of good things and you will see that your child is improving in their Studies and other activities. But never force them to do anything. Forcing is not all good.

Increase Confidence

My father always used to increase my confidence, even though I am not performing well in my studies. He has always shown to me that I can do everything and nothing is impossible. If parents don’t increase their children’s confidence, then through whom the child could expect anything? Parents are the lone supporter of their children. Parents are grown and have experience a lot in their life, but children are blank pages, they have to get the experience in their life. You should teach few good and important lessons to them which they could remember through their life. You need to give some examples about to move ahead in their life with confidence, when they are collapsing. Show them the way, even though it is passing through dark, but you should realize them that beyond the darkness, there is a Sunshine which will glow forever. You should teach them and realize those things which they could use and never forget in their future. Whenever your child does something wrong, then not only correct them, but also you should encourage them to do correct. This increases the confidence. Parents are the one, who has the responsibilities of their children to stop them from the trap of Negative thoughts and you should make them realize that they could do everything, which the other children does it very easily. Yes, that positivity should be there in them and they should never forget and maintain these positive thoughts in them throughout their Career. This will have huge growth in their confidence and they would realize that they have all the ingredients to be successful in their life.

Stabilize the Curiosity

Children always have a huge curiosity in knowing new things than the bigger ones. They are always in curiosity in getting knowledge from where it comes. Sometimes in school, few children have habit of asking different-different questions. Children like to know more and more information from their parents. You should tell them about whatever they ask. You should satisfy your child with useful information. If you are not having any information about your children’s questions, then you should find those answers from anywhere and tell them. This will make them understand the depth of anything.

Opportunity of Playing

Studies are very important, but you should also your children to go out and have some physical activities playing in the garden, playing cricket or hide and seek with friends. A physical activity is also vital as studies are. This helps in lot of way of the growth of your child. Children also have an expectation that their parents also play with them. So, take time from your busy and for sometimes, you can also become kid to play with your children. This will also relax you from the office and your mind will also become free. Spending time with your children is also important in the child development. Children needs love and support and parents are the only one who could provide both at same time. Don’t shout on your child when they ask you to go out for playing. Put some condition like if you will complete your homework then they can go outside for playing with their friends. You can fix some time for your children to go outside for playing. When you will play with your children, then they will feel happier. This also makes a good relationship between you and your children.

Save from depression

Various times it happens that when children don’t score good marks, then they get depressed. Instead of shouting to them, rather you should encourage them to move forward. Whatever has past, it’s gone. It won’t come now. Whatever is coming is in future, so encouragement them that they can perform well from now onwards. Always make them feel positive. If your child after coming from school is very silent and not happy, then ask them about the problems and solve them in very friendly manner. When you will handle your child with care, then they won’t trap in the depression. Every Child has different IQ level. So, it is better that you don’t compare your child with others.

• Written by Ronark Bhardwaj.
• In category Parenting and Child Development.
• 11 years ago.

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