Choosing a life partner and responsibilites being in marriage
Introduction
It is said that marriage between 2 people happens due to destiny, this means that even though there are several hurdles in between them, if the luck is with them, then the 2 life partner will surely tied one knot. Even though we believe that luck is most important factor between the 2 people to have marriage, but we have to accept that marriage is part of life which confined in Strength and Purity. Unfortunately, now a day’s in our society there are many broken heart, houses and Marriages and these number are growing day by day. People who perform a marriage are slowly-slowly forgetting their promises which they had took during their marriage. People have started forgetting their love which they had shared while being in a marriage.
A choice of right life partner has become extremely important
In today’s age, the relation between a boy and a girl is very important. Today, this relation is facing lot of new problems in the world. If we look out the reasons of these problems very minutely, then we will feel that a choice of right partner has become very vital. In the age of sexual revolution and women independence, this problem is rising to more height. Today, we are having an independence to move freely on the road, but there are various Stereotype people who don’t like this. Such type of behavior, affects lot of youngsters in our society. On the take of Marriage and life partner, their thinking does affect the youngsters.
Care around the Environment and necessities are important
For most of the people, marriage is used to get to their goal. In our Indian society, parents send their daughter to the college for only few years and suddenly when any good boy comes into their eyes, they forget about their daughter’s education and fix their daughter’s marriage with that boy and depart her from house. In the olden days, the society used to fix the role and responsibilities of any wife, but now the bride and groom together this decision. Yes, we have to take care about the environment near us.
If any boy, who is doctor, takes the decision to marry a girl who is doctor, then they both have to take care about their house as well as the hospital. They have to show their responsibilities both at their house as well as in the hospital with patients. The parents and other people who live in the house think that the girl is not able to take of the house, as compared to other normal girl who takes care. Also, the boy who is doctor, think that my wife is not able to serve me hot food in my house. This creates lot of stress in the house. In every society, marriage is an acceptable medium, to receive a sexual satisfaction. This is a human desire of morality and accepted by law. When we are choosing our life partner for marrying, then we should also take care about this.
Choosing life partner: Think, Understand and then decide
In the Martial life, important aspects which play an important role are age, Education, Social Environment. In a country like India, where the majority of men is there, here the women gender has to do lot of compromise. Most of the advertisement of marriages is full of thoughts in which the boy wants young, white skin, full of culture and working women girl. Yes, the good aspect of marriage is that in the age where the growth and Inflation is growing, the Indian girls are also choosing their life partner with proper care and understanding. Most of the boys-girls, do realize the importance of Personality and physical attraction. But we do find different opinions about every girl about the physical attraction and personality. We often have read in some magazines, newspaper that the opposite sex attracts each other. It is true, but more often we should see that to whomever we choose as our life partner, their environment and behavior is somewhat same than us. We can’t marry a person, who has a wide difference in thinking from us.
Social and financial status should be balance
The second important thing which we need to take care is financial status. In the marriage is arrange, then it is obvious that parents would see that with whom they are going to tie a relation, should be approximately equal in their financial status. But in love marriage, such note is not taken care of, which could affect in the relation between the two in future. In our society, inter-caste marriages and inter-religion marriages are increasing. After the marriage, many couple decides due to Social, Cultural and financial difference, they are not able to balance their martial life.
Sometimes, we could also see such type of marriages, in which the important of giving respect to their family members comes to completion. In such cases, girls are affected, due to their faults. Some girls come from the houses, where it is tradition of going outside twice or thrice in a week in a restaurant. Girls do expect that in this house too they will get such type of luxury. This makes the matter worst, as the family member oppose to have such leisure. This affects the happy couple’s life.
When a couple gets married, they expect lot of happiness and love from each other. Before marriage couple doesn’t think about what the difficulties they could face after marriage? What are the responsibilities they are going to preach? Before marriage, the young boys-girls, when they are attracted to each other, then they build a wonderful life of dream in their mind. They compare themselves with the film actors and actress. Now in such case, if any high class girl runs away with the low class boy, then whose fault would be? What would be the result of such a relation? It is not that you can have inter-caste marriage, but the truth is a high class girl, can’t a good and settles life with a house who is living a low or medium standard.
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