Better to continue your friendship with your partner after marriage
Actually friendship is the starting for any relation. So relations start with friendship and then it turns to other relations. Why this friendship does not continue till the end. A boy and girl meet. They become friends and later they fall in love. On one they promise each other and become wife and husband. Most of the couples are friends before their marriage. Due to the ups and downs in their life, the friendship between them disappears.
It is good to continue the friendship between the couple after marriage. It will be a best solution for all problems in their married life. So let us discuss about a few tricks to wake the friendship between the couples.
1. Don’t criticize everything
If you question everything to your life partner then you can never be friends. If you be as a husband who always commands the wife or doubt wife then wife cannot make friendship with the husband. If both wife and husband what to become friends after marriage then they should never feel as wife and husband.
2. Humor talk
Most of the couples after marriage take their life so seriously. Whenever they discuss anything, they discuss about job change or investment or giving house for rent. It just looks like a business meeting. By having humor talk they can get the lost happiness back. We have such humorous conversations with our friends also.
3. Expecting more
Life partner asking you to do the more things which he or she assigns. When your friend does not do what you ask then you never feel bad, in the same manner when your life partner does not do the things which you ask then you should feel bad and take it easy. Try to know the difficulty in it for your life partner.
4. Try to do the things jointly
Most of the couples will be after marriage they will become busy with their own deeds. Once in their personal room only they meet and spend time with each other. This leads them be get separated for more distance of their mind. When you are a bachelor, how you used to do your things by helping each other in the same manner wife and husband should help each other while doing any work.
5. Talking about other
With friendship people will talk about other every time. In the same manner talk about other with your wife or husband. So those friendships between your both start again. Therefore, the obstacles between you both will vanish.
The success of married life is when both wife and husband treat each other as friends. A Good friend can become a good husband. Friend always understands the mind of friends. So if your wife or husband understands their life partner’s mind then there will be no problem in married life. As both will understand each other’s mind and they behave according to the others interest and attitude. Friendship is one kind of love. So it is very valuable. Every relation becomes valuable with it. It’s a foundation for every relation. So friendship exists in every couple for their happy married. Friendship molds the people to understand each other very closely. So such friendship will be helpful for the wife and husband and newly married couple to get adjusted with each other.
Not only love marriage, even arranged marriages also have friendship as a foundation. In love marriage the girl and boy meet, after becoming friends they fall in love. But in an arranged marriage, girl and boy start talking when their match gets fixed. So they make friendship with each other. After getting married they continue that friendship and even it sometimes turns to love. Though they will be in love but they maintain friendship with each other.
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