Some principles which make your friendship Strong
Introduction
You can’t become friends with everyone. A Friend is one that helps you in moving forward in your life. A friend is one who never thought to have tears in your eyes and also will never ever try to ashamed you. When you choose your friends, then you should be careful with this above things.
Be a good listener
You should hear the talks of your friends very carefully. They should feel that you are listening to them. You should not be dumb and listening to them. A good friend is one who also responds in between to them. You can also ask some questions while having conversation. Your eye contact and body language are also important, because these 2 things are enough to guess about how much carefully you have listen to your friend. It is possible that talk goes on useless and no solution comes on the issue which you and your friend are discussing. But when you tell about something which is special, then one closeness falls between you and your friend and your friend also get satisfied.
Say anything by understanding
Before saying anything, you should first think in your mind, whether I am saying correct or wrong? Especially, when you are angry with your friend or your friend is angry with you. Sometimes in anger we speak something bad to other which is not good at all. You should avoid being rude and also you should not try to break your friend’s heart. The best way is to be away for sometimes and when you become cool, then you can solve your matter.
Interfere is not good
If your friend wants any opinion of yours on some issue, then there is no wrong in giving your opinion. If is possible that your friend is engaged in lengthy and complicated quarrel, so he/she must be asking your help in solving the issue. It is not at all good to be involved in all the problems of your friend. You can give a support to your friend. Let your friend think, understand and then allow your friend to take decision.
Just accept as your friend is
Just as you have a desire of been accepted as you are in your real life, then such desire your friend could have. So, accept as your friend is. So, accept your friend with all the good and bad things he posses and in that same way you can give love.
Respect the liking of your friend
It is very common that the thoughts between you and your friend may differ. If your friend thinks that his/her decision is correct and you don’t agree on that decision, and then don’t stop him/her. Let your friend proceed with the decision. It is possible that your advice is correct, but it may be possible that your friend’s viewpoint is different. Let your friend learn from the experiences. Yes, if the decision of your friend is like jumping in the trench, then it becomes your responsibility to stop your friend. In future your friend might realize why you would have stopped him/her to take this decision.
Appreciate your friend
Appreciate your friend for his/her goodness. Everyone is the world know that when you appreciate of something to someone, then he/she would like to do those things again and again. In Appreciation there is a secret of attraction, which attracts the good things to you. So, whenever your friend does something good, then appreciate him/her. This will feel him/her good. If your friend has done such a wonderful job, which is praiseworthy in your eyes, then make your friend aware of this.
Always remember your promise
If you give any promise to your friend, then any how you should fulfill it. If you think that you would not be able to fulfill the promise, then it is better that you deny your friend. For example, if your friend has kept one party on weekend and he/she has invited you, and if it is difficult for you to join the party, then with peacefully you can deny your friend. With the mutual understanding of your friend you can prepare a new program for the next weekend. In this way, your friend will not be angry with you.
Responsibility of a friend
The responsibility of being friend should be from both sides. For this responsibility, you should meet and spend valuable time with your friend. You should go to your friend house to have a good tuning between you and your friend. You should also ask your friend to come to your house. If you are not interested to go to your friend’s house or your friend is not interesting in coming to your house, then such friendship doesn’t work for long time. So, be like friends. Spend some time with your friends.
Accept the fault
When you do any fault, then you should accept it. You should not hesitate to say sorry to your friend. You should understand that to have a healthy friendship, there should be no ego in you and in your friend. Sometimes the friend likes to have sorry from you, when his/her mood is not good and you don’t give it. So, forget the ego and it is good to say sorry, if your fault is there. This indicates that you have realized your mistake and you won’t commit this kind of mistake next time.
Express your feelings
In front of your friends you should make him/her realize how much this friendship means to you? You can also send greeting card to your friend to express your feelings. If you are going out with your friend, then you can buy him/her a gift. This indicates that how much you care for your friend. Gift is the good way to show how much you care for your friend and how much you closeness your feel for your friend. You can also plan a surprise dinner with your friend in your friend’s Restaurant. The small-small things strengthen the bond of relationship between you and your friend.
Have an Attitude with Sympathy
From the eyes of your friend, you should understand different –different situations. This will make you and your friend understand better. In this way, you would be very comfortable to talk with your friend.
With honesty keep your thoughts
You should have a good understanding between you and your friends. To have honesty and loyalty between you and your friends takes time. So, you should be steady in understanding your friend. You should come in front of your friend and ask what your friend expects from you? You should also tell to your friends about what you can do for your friend? You should not have any hesitation in asking anything from your friend. If any problem is there, then you can solve the problem together.
New Experiences
You should share your new experiences with your friend. For example, if any new restaurant has opened in your city, then you should go with your friend and enjoy the special food of the restaurant. Apart from this, you can also have a program of visiting different places of your city. These experiences always remain with you in your greatest moment’s list.
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