How to face the problems with mother in law and father in law
The Bride and bridegroom give promises to each other in their marriage. Marriage is an important event in everyone’s life. Within a few months a lot of problems take place between wife and husband. These problems take place due the people around them. Those people are mother-in-law, father-in-law, brother-in-law and sister-in-law. The problems created by these people should be faced cleverly. Because they are the parents and sibling of your life partner. Due the occurs of sudden changes with the bride they feel anger. So if they do not support bride then what the bride should do? A lot of quarrels and misunderstandings get created bride and the sister-in-law, brother-in-law, father-in-law and mother-in-law. So let us discuss such problems now.
If father-in-law and mother-in-law do not support daughter-in-law then problems occur between the wife and husband. These kinds of problems mostly occur for ladies. So the wife should get the support of her husband. But in most of the situations husband could not say anything. The main reason for this is the anger of his parents. In such situations it is very tough for him to solve the problem. Therefore, the wife should support mother-in-law and father-in-law then solve the problem. The Wife should take care due to these problems there should be no problems between the wife and husband.
Most of the father-in-law and mother-in-law do not like their daughter-in-law doing the job. Due to this, her career will be in problem. They even question her why she is coming late from the office and where she is roaming. They never understand about her job. In few situations they may ask such questions as they care so they behave in this manner. So daughter-in-law needs to make them understand and convince them with a lot of patience. Later everything will be ok.
If your mother-in-law and father –in-law does not like your friends and social relationships in the society then this also leads to quarrels and problems. They cannot understand present generation life style. They always tell about their old style and their generation. These kinds of problems are commonly seen in every house. You and your mother-in-law and father-in-law should come to one decision and at the same time make them understand the social values and their benefits of the social relationships in the society.
The problem created by mother-in-law and father-in-law brings psychological stress and this effects daughter-in-law’s personal and office life. If stress increases then health problems occurs. So if your mother-in-law and father-in-law do not understand daughter-in-law then it is better to be away from them. First daughter-in-law needs to be good with mother-in-law and father-in-law. If it is not possible then daughter-in-law need to live separately with her life partner. Therefore, wife and husband will lead a happy life. Therefore, wife and husband should enjoy their life but they should spoil it due to the problems with the mother-in-law and father-in-law.
When any problem created between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it is suggested that daughter-in-law should work out on the main cause of the problem. Everyone has 2 shades. They are Positive and negative shade. So try to find out the positive side of your mother-in-law and appreciate her. So that she will feel happy and positive about daughter-in-law. Sometimes thank her for any help she has done.
There is a lot of difference between the present generation and the old generation. Instead of increasing the differences it is good to discuss and find the solution with a lot of patience. Saving the relations is more necessary.
Daughter-in-law should behave in such a way that mother-in-law is very lucky to have such a wife to her son. Then most of the problems gets solved between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
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