Female and orgasm
Female and sex – the reality
The act of sex ends at orgasm, which is one of the most joyful feeling for human being although I am not aware if other animals also feel the same. But do you think half of our population knows it meaning! I shall not be surprised if more than 50% women answer it in a flat ‘no’ and this is not true for our country but allover the world that women never reach to the ultimate stage of satisfaction for different reasons. When I say most women in the world that means almost all of the women have never reached to the orgasm even once in their lives and the few lucky ones who did, they also felt only once in a while, this is not a regular feature for them.
Most women who do not reach to orgasm also do not know the meaning of it for them this act is way to satisfy their partner according to his wish. Some of the women want to refuse it but they do not have the courage to do so but that is for sure that if they had a choice to say yes or no they would have preferred a no, any night or day. There is another interesting fact associated with orgasm that most women are not aware about it because they have never reached to that height in their entire married life. For them this is like giving to the desires of their husbands’ demand whenever he felt like.
Most educated women who have any idea about it through books or other media sources and who are totally dedicated to their life partners to the extent that they take care about smallest of their needs and desires wish so dearly that their partners also thought about their wishes as well. But this is one particular subject at least in our country, where women prefer to keep mum despite the fact that they never feel satisfied despite whatever they go through every night.
Women and female sexual dysfunction
If a woman is attached to a man with whole her sentiments, dedication and giving him her best possible affection, love and care, she also expects the same in return and rightly so because this is matter of adjustment and understanding each other on a better level only. However man is a different specie who is at advantage with his physical structure and being offensive also he wants to be hasty in such matters without thinking about his partner’s needs. The result, most women do not want to involve in this act unless forced and think that this is man’s game and for his pleasure only. This is the point where women feel uninterested and unattached, this is the point where the point of FSD begun.
There is a basic difference as far sex in men and women is concerned, a woman never prefers act of sex before she feels attached to a man on mental level while the aim of a man is to have her before knowing her fully well and here is the catch. Since the aim of the man is to satisfy him, he never thinks about the complex sexual fulfillment of a woman and does the act violently and in a hurry, that makes the woman even more unsatisfied.
Woman likes it in a tender, loving and with a feeling of safety but man does it for his self-satisfaction and that mars the joy of orgasm because it becomes one sided. Imagine the moment when a man after finishing the job turns toward the other end and snores hard, leaving his partner lying flat and wishing herself to be dead at that particular point out of agony, shame and feeling of insult. However, that is a daily practice for her because she never had the courage to tell her partner about her dissatisfaction.
This is not a game
The sex is not the name of meeting two bodies but a combination of soul and body, the people who understand it know the real meaning of orgasm, and the women who reach to that point often know the real meaning of sex. Although reaching to physical orgasm is not possible every time but the way man treats, his partner at that particular moment makes all the difference. The meaning of sex may bring a particular picture to our mind but the meaning certainly is not the same for every one. For some it’s a heavenly experience while for some others it’s totally like passing through alleys of hell. So be a little patient ad try to understand the feeling of your partner to take her to dizzy heights, which is not that hard a job.
If she is not satisfied
Trust me you can never have the full satisfaction of the act and reach to the top of orgasm I you have no patients and art of love. To understand the difference of a successful partner take it this way- imagine a work of a fine arts painter and then look at the man who is out to whitewash a wall. Imagine the difference of strokes, they both are at it but the way a fine artist is doing his job is altogether different and he shall be paid accordingly. But this is not the payment that matters here entirely but look at the expressions of the artist the satisfaction and the result that mattes in the end.
Conclusion of my humble effort
Your partner is solely dependent on you especially in our country where women do not make it a point that if they are not satisfied sexually they go out to find it somewhere else. Therefore, this is your added responsibility to see to it that she gets what is her due. People who do not understand psychology of women would never know that due to her complex structure they need to be treated in different manner because only loving and caring behavior can satisfy them else you too are in serious trouble because you shall get through the act but never know the real pleasure.
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