Sex is in your mind

Most people think sex as a physical feeling, an enjoyment that on feels through his organs but it’s not so. Organs are only medium through you enjoy your sexual act but the fact is that your mind accepts or rejects your joy according to your mental standard. I can prove it with a very simple example that would explain it in simple words. You might have felt that your different body parts have different feelings during sex act, which is not the same every time. Some times a mere touch by your partner may arise you to the unlimited heights while another occasion the same touch may make you feel like pushing your partner away because you did not feel like it.

DSC02240Sex is feeling of inner satisfaction that can fill you up mentally and physically or spoil your mood further if you are not in right state of mind. The fact is that while you are in right mood for the act a feeling of indescribable energy takes over you that encourages your, mentally first and then physically. However the ultimate truth is that your mind is as important for a sexual act as your body, you cannot find a proper pleasure if you are not prepared mentally, do whatever you can and there is another factor involved that your mental condition does not accepts it same way as it took last time around. That makes all the difference and that is truer in cases of women because they are more involved mentally than physically. Their satisfaction depends upon their mental status as well as men’s way of handling.

The points of arousal may differ

According to books on this subject there are sixty-four different parts in a human body those may arise sexual feelings but the fact is that these parts are never the same for every woman or man on a particular day but differ according to seasons, atmosphere and mental status. The deeper study indicates that such situations vary according to lunar positions as well while the switch position as per moon’s position. However w shall keep it limited to mind and mental status to not to make it too complicated. However, there is no denying that a human body might feel differently as far sex related matter is concerned, different body parts play a different role on different days. They say that some of the important parts in the body may not be in the genital areas but any of the body parts may work as simulator in the act. 

Touch of love

Most people do not know the importance of foreplay but that is the most important part of the act, perhaps as important or eve more as the act itself because a man can reach to ultimate but not a woman without it. The structure of woman is considered by most as if she is not made for this pleasure and that is true if they do not understand the magic of touch. Foreplay is a way to explore the points of excitement, which keep changing according to mood or the physical status.

Frigidity and solutions

metotIn cases of frigidity psychologists try to find the reasons through  particular therapy called ‘sentence focus exercise’ that is sort of finding the points of pleasure or oxytocic method, which is a way to correct the problem through touch of love or ‘love touch’. Foreplay is only to find out that particular point for that moment and where you reach ultimately that triggers the sensation and helps reach to ultimate pleasure. The pleasure for women as far sex is concerned not considered important as the common belief in this matter says that a woman’s desires are insatiable due to her complex structure therefore not taken into account. However, the knowledgeable people know that if proper points are handled correctly there is every possibility that a woman can reach to her orgasm easily and that too multiple times. I know there are very few people who consider taking into account the pleasure of a woman while at the act but they are ill-informed because they are not aware that if their women are not satisfied they too are missing the ultimate joy. I could have added a lot more about it but do not find this platform to make it that detailed.  

What about disabled ladies

We talk a lot about physically disabled women who are not able to see or walk properly, maybe they are disabled physically but not mentally and they have desire to live and enjoy their lives like normal people. People are making various efforts for them on different levels like jobs are created for them or reservations in jobs sanctioned. Some organizations are arranging wheel chairs for them or electric cycles especially designed for them also they are provided with financial support or social status but no one is thinking in terms of their natural physical demand. Maybe they cannot express it but they can feel it. However no NGO or group has come forward, who has taken up this important issue or worked on it.

 I would like to ask this question here on this platform if any one has done any thing on this front without making dent on feelings of such women. Who are unable to see or hard of hearing but perfectly able to make physical relations. Some of the women who work in different capacities and are able to live a decent life but no one ever cared for their sexual rights become easy targets of unsocial elements and even give birth to illicit children. Therefore, a proper step is needed in this direction without any further delay considering such women as equal members of this society. I recently found a website, which is doing its bit toward awareness of such women, who would feel obliged if some thing were done for them. You and I are well aware that these women are disabled only partially but fit for physical relations.  


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