Success is not far off - Go and grab it
Choice is yours
Most people are living in very stressful conditions in the world today and this is more so especially in our country because living conditions are too poor and political scenario not at all public friendly. However, this is up to you only to how you choose to live, happily or keep shedding tears all the time. It only takes a little bit of adjustment in your own ways to live with a laugh or weeping all the time. If you choose ‘Laugh’ for yourself in place of ranting, you will certainly see a substantial change in your physical as well your mental health. And the best part behind this reality remains that you do not have to spend any money to choose happiness for yourself. And we all know that happiness never differentiate in between rich and the poor. Laughter is for everyone, a way of expressing your innocence, a way to show to the world that you are least bothered of hardships in your life.
It is all about our self-belief
To make yourself happy, you shall have to learn to trust your own self. You must have a solid confidence that there is nothing that can deter you from the path of happiness. Although all of you know about these facts fully well but still face testing times in your life. To try to be happier, you can try some of these to make you more capable of facing the situation-
A- Try to become a child for sometime, you only have to behave like a child who knows nothing about this mean world
B- Forget all about complicacies of the world and live as you like, have a faith that no evil can touch an innocent one
C- You should have nothing to think about worldly problems but innocence, self-confidence and a blank mind with no impurities
D- Do not even think of hatred but love and nothing else
E- Have a feeling that Nature is with you and nothing bad is going to happen to you, it is you the owner of the world and you have to see that every one is happy
F- People may laugh on you, maybe you yourself want to laugh with them for some of the foolishness comes with such behavior but the child in you will keep you going. It will help your cause in the end.
Self-confidence is the key
Have you ever thought that if the man has so many abilities in almost every field, which makes him almost invincible then why does he feel so helpless? Why he feels so amused looking at others work while he can do the same work as much skillfully or even better than others did. This is because he considers himself inferior to others. Here lies the secret of his dissatisfaction, because he has no faith in his own abilities. A person having lower confidence level in his own capacities is least likely to succeed because he always keep thinking that others are better than him and he is the one the most worthless of them all. Half the battle is lost for him at that particular point. One does not have to keep wondering about how was it possible to complete a job by others but begin to do that job himself, with a confidence that if others can do it, why not him! You can always reach to the newer heights in you life with little bit of self-pushing.
One must have confident in his abilities that he can do it that only makes him ultimate winner. There is nothing you cannot do, if you have decided to do it. There are numerous examples of famous people who failed several times but finally achieved it successfully. They never felt as if they had failed forever but they started doing it allover again and kept doing unless they succeeded. We never had known so many great personalities had they given up easily. Just go and read about Abraham Lincoln who lost number of times until he finally won the vice-presidential election at the age of 51. One must keep in mind that every successful man has the same body organs just like yours but he has that one extra power in him called the ‘will power’ that separates him from others.
Face the challenges
Face the challenges of life because all good things happen to only those who are willing to learn from their hard times. Not everyone who faces challenges in his life comes out a winner but some of them find problems too difficult to face to end up on the loosing side. Remember the joy of life is within us that reflect through our expressions and surroundings. Do not run after false images or never try to grasp these, it will lead you to nowhere it is better to hold the objects, trust me images will come following you. The actual reasons of problems we face are not far off from us but these are scattered all around us. The problem is there in today’s fast culture of competition, which creates a sense of insecurity and as much we feel unsecured, we get more irritated. All we know that migraine, hypertension and headaches are signs of stress in our life because none of these comes in the category of diseases curable forever but these are only symptoms of your bad mental state. Whatever problems you face in your life or whatever the reasons, you are the only one who has to find a solution for them. Now the way you face them or find their solutions depends entirely upon you, do it with a smile or otherwise, choice is yours. But one thing is for sure, if you can keep your cool, it will help you finding a better solution.
Be prepared
There is not a single person in this world who never got a chance to achieve success in his life but the only difference in between haves and have not was that haves were well prepared in advance while the have not, caught unprepared. In fact, people who wakeup late never see the riding sun, therefore the persons who succeed are the ones who always remain ready to grasp the success. They keep smiles on their lips, have a loving heart, good thoughts in their minds and ready to accept challenges with open arms.
Conclusion
It is easy to find faults in others but it is hardest to find faults in ourselves therefore before judging others it is better to judge ourselves. It is better to change our own attitude in order to change others. The need is to change the negative way of thinking in order to achieve success. It is necessary to think positively that nothing is impossible. Once the faith is developed, things begin to change and target looks nearer than ever before. A person full of confidence, patience and with an attitude of happy go lucky never fails in his life.
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