I feel it is because the women were totaly dependant on their men for everything and when another woman comes in she is viewed as a rival.I feel that with financial independence for women and a change in the attitude will definitely help them bond together better ..

Actually the true conflict lies between groom and his mother-in-law. This is also very serious matter.

I feel it is because the women were totaly dependant on their men for everything and when another woman comes in she is viewed as a rival.I feel that with financial independence for women and a change in the attitude will definitely help them bond together better ..

Financial independence is of course necessary but in-laws expect bride to take her responsibilities without doing any mistakes. There are many families who don't prefer a working women. Hence they pressurise woman to be domestic. This led to conflict.

I feel it is because the women were totaly dependant on their men for everything and when another woman comes in she is viewed as a rival.I feel that with financial independence for women and a change in the attitude will definitely help them bond together better ..

Financial independence is of course necessary but in-laws expect bride to take her responsibilities without doing any mistakes. There are many families who don't prefer a working women. Hence they pressurise woman to be domestic. This led to conflict.

Here also they are being selfish since they want the daughter in law to be always at their mercy since she is financially dependent on them.But will a working woman now agree to marry into a family that is against her working? I doubt it very much ..

Saas bhi kabhi bahu thi

It is said that a woman understands another woman better. If that is the case why is it that married women and their mother in laws are usually enemies in our country? I am yet to come across a married woman who gets along well with her mother in law. :dry:

It is said that a woman understands another woman better. If that is the case why is it that married women and their mother in laws are usually enemies in our country? I am yet to come across a married woman who gets along well with her mother in law. :dry:

The question itself has an answer for this. Everyone considers as Mother in laws not mothers and daughter in laws not daughters.

It is said that a woman understands another woman better. If that is the case why is it that married women and their mother in laws are usually enemies in our country? I am yet to come across a married woman who gets along well with her mother in law. :dry:

The question itself has an answer for this. Everyone considers as Mother in laws not mothers and daughter in laws not daughters.

There will be always an exception. It's not that every Mother in law treats her daughter in law badly. I know a case, where a Mother in law got her Daughter in law married after her son died in a car accident. She has personally supervised her daughter in law's marriage.

It is said that a woman understands another woman better. If that is the case why is it that married women and their mother in laws are usually enemies in our country? I am yet to come across a married woman who gets along well with her mother in law. :dry:

The question itself has an answer for this. Everyone considers as Mother in laws not mothers and daughter in laws not daughters.

There will be always an exception. It's not that every Mother in law treats her daughter in law badly. I know a case, where a Mother in law got her Daughter in law married after her son died in a car accident. She has personally supervised her daughter in law's marriage.

There is an exception for sure everything in the world. However, we can not consider the exceptions as regular events. We should focus on the happenings.