Ushaji....

Keep well manners in forum. I have always appreciated for your work here. About that scientific explanation thread, I even asked you sorry. I think you have forgotten all those matters. About the second one I don't know anything.
Also, I don't know what's its relation with my advice to Thomas.

Oh! I missed this discussion due to the technical issues!!

Although the topic is now closed, Sandhya I want to point out that you should not have gotten yourself involved in this type of discussion because what Usha is saying is not wrong. Though both of you are correct in your points, this discomforting discussion could have been avoided. Also, you telling her to keep well manners in the forum is very much wrong, I have told you and others earlier also, you are welcome to provide guidance to newcomers by refrain from giving suggestions that would lead to something like this. I expect better from you and others.

So I am asking once again, leave it to moderators, if you want to say something, use the PM option.

Great post. It explained a lot about our current situation in India. :)

Yes Thomas :) I too found it extremely informative and useful....thats why I decided to share it here with the other members :dry: :huh:

Thanks for sharing. Keeping on sharing such articles in future. :) :)

Thomas, you can make use of that 'Thank you' button also, if you just need to say a 'Thank you'. Hoping you understood.

I think he had a little more than thank you to convey... :) so let him feel free to do so !Moderators would take care of moderating ...

why should we think that moderators should do everything here?
As a senior member member here, I have tried to guide a new member. I think it's my duty. It only reduces moderator's job. :) I think he liked my advice. That's why he gave me a 'Thank you'.

Usha madam ji, I am Online always in boddunan, due to my other work i could not work sometimes in forums, and when i get few minutes i reply to the forums which i find. so I hope you got my answer. Here i dont have any friends and formalities. If any issue i find, its my responsibility to make it cool. so I did as a moderator.


and coming to your threads, you just check them, one of the thread is repeated one. If you want i will get you the link i mean superstitious and the other thread has no more things to discuss about. Moderators are very responsible persons, they never take a step without any use.

Sarala, as a moderator, you should be able to think fairly and understand an issue from everyone's point and in this instance Usha was not wrong. She just said something that she felt was not fair and told Sandhya so, there was no need to get personal about it with Usha, also the topics that were locked immediately when she created them, it was not fair. For instance, the topic for showroom girls went on and on for a long time, even though when I expressed their relevance! whereas the topic of shopping as therapy was locked immediately. This does not bode well on you as a moderator. So when you defend someone, you have take all such parameters into consideration. This was not a fair action. I am sorry that you and Sandhya will be upset by this, but I have to make sure that you understand and not repeat this.

Also, remember that Usha is a senior person and is very much experienced in working online and in public forums for a long time. When we consider this, she is even much more senior to me and I have to accept and concede to her experience gracefully. Give credit where credit is due and there is no question of seniority in terms of time, but it has to be in terms of experience, maturity and knowledge. Please remember this!

@Kalyani.

But have you seen what she has posted before my post. She is telling I have asked Sarala to lock 2 threads of hers. If she has such complaints, she could have communicate it with you or administrator through PMs. Was it necessary to be discussed here? Also, it was no where related to my advice to a new user. Isn't it ? Also, about the second thread, i know nothing, how could she blame me without any proof???/. Hoping you have noticed her language in forums. She has not even respected Sarala's words who is a moderator here.
Also, as all other members, i just requested him not to add Thank you messages in forum. It was just an advice. Nothing else. Not only me, other users also do so, if they see double posts or thank you messages.

Great post. It explained a lot about our current situation in India. :)

Yes Thomas :) I too found it extremely informative and useful....thats why I decided to share it here with the other members :dry: :huh:

Thanks for sharing. Keeping on sharing such articles in future. :) :)

Thomas, you can make use of that 'Thank you' button also, if you just need to say a 'Thank you'. Hoping you understood.

I think he had a little more than thank you to convey... :) so let him feel free to do so !Moderators would take care of moderating ...

why should we think that moderators should do everything here?
As a senior member member here, I have tried to guide a new member. I think it's my duty. It only reduces moderator's job. :) I think he liked my advice. That's why he gave me a 'Thank you'.

Sandya being a very senior member and an 'emperor' is as good as a moderator. The moderators are also members and they are also not full time. We work here by cooperation. I appreciate Sandha's efforts to guide new members when necessary.

Yes, It is right that education never ends.
We learn new thing everyday.

Nice sharing.

True education helps in discovering ourselves - our inner strength in the face of all trials and tribulations of life! We become seekers of truths through it,free ourselves from all narrow,crippling prejudices and pseudo-truths enabling us to find our true place under the sun!

Sandhya Rani wrote:
Godson Thomas wrote:
usha manohar wrote:
Godson Thomas wrote:
Great post. It explained a lot about our current situation in India.

Yes Thomas I too found it extremely informative and useful....thats why I decided to share it here with the other members
Asha wrote:
Thanks for sharing. Keeping on sharing such articles in future.

Thomas, you can make use of that 'Thank you' button also, if you just need to say a 'Thank you'. Hoping you understood.

I think he had a little more than thank you to convey... so let him feel free to do so !Moderators would take care of moderating




Guiding a new comer is not all wrong. Its a responsibility of the senior member. Every post and every thing cannot be checked by the moderator. Few responsibilities should be taken by the members also. There is nothing wrong in that. Great work sandhya. Keep guiding and helping new comers :)

Great work sarala, you arrived here very fast today LOL...like you did when you were summoned by your friend to axe my 2 threads without any reason ,keep it up , the way to go !!

http://www.boddunan.com/forum/11-general-discussions/231158-being-superstitiousany-scientific-reason-for-this-.html

http://www.boddunan.com/forum/2-announcements/230880-shopping-is-a-therapy-to-many-people.html?start=30

http://www.boddunan.com/forum/8-feedback/165456-today-i-got-second-cheque-from-google-adsense.html?start=30