Sanjeev it is not like that though the daughter in law try to see mother in mother in law but mother in law never try to see daughter in her daughter in law and she maintains a relation of a cruel and rule mother in law to a daughter in law.

Of course there are such daughter in laws also there who have thrown their mother in law aside and kept husband in her hand ( Son of mother in Law)

Sanjeev it is not like that though the daughter in law try to see mother in mother in law but mother in law never try to see daughter in her daughter in law and she maintains a relation of a cruel and rule mother in law to a daughter in law.

Of course there are such daughter in laws also there who have thrown their mother in law aside and kept husband in her hand ( Son of mother in Law)

I would say it depends on person to person as there are all types of people in the world. :)

Actually cannot say which lady will be rude and which not.Everything depends. Till now in my survey, I dint hear that a mother in law looking after her daughter in law as her own daughter. Every mother in law is harassing her daughter in law in high level or low level but harassment is there that may be physical or mental.

some take gold ornaments from the daughter in law or some take money from daughter in law. or some say against the daughter in law to son.
Some poke with their knife like words. some always try to separate daughter in law and son. some always harass daughter in law to get money from her house. Like this the women who came mother in law is like ghost to the daughter in law.
I am not saying all mother in laws are rude and cruel like this. but most of the cases are like this. In my survey, in 100 families one family has good mother in law.So just assume how daughter in laws are suffering.

Sanjeev it is not like that though the daughter in law try to see mother in mother in law but mother in law never try to see daughter in her daughter in law and she maintains a relation of a cruel and rule mother in law to a daughter in law.

Of course there are such daughter in laws also there who have thrown their mother in law aside and kept husband in her hand ( Son of mother in Law)

I have also noticed that MIL are cruel in the cases where the husbands are not strict enough and are mama's boy. If husband is strict then MIL won't speak or do anything against him. If husband keep on listening to his mother and do according to her then MIL get more confident and dictate DIL's.