Happy Married life
Marriage is a turning point in once life. After 5 years of married life when you look back then if you find those 5 years full of problems, then should not get compromised that life is full of problems and let them come. You need to solve those. Then only mutual understanding between wife and husband develops. Love and affection will increase between them.
Both wife and husband are working. There may be no problems financially. But still they feel uneasy in their married relation. They even have frustrated on the life partner. If you feel that such situations are being increased day by day then you should observe whether the responsibilities are increasing. Try to share the responsibilities equally. Then the work burden will decrease. Due to the sharing of responsibilities, the understanding develops.
In married life the sexual relationship should be given priority. But now a day there is no time for this. They escape to answer by saying starting days of marriage are different. If you want your relationship to be healthy after 10 years also then both wife and husband need to be close with each other. Doctors also will suggest you the same. So welcome happiness into your life. Talking to each other with love, having walk both wife and husband holding each other hands, sitting close to each other, reading one book both wife and husband at once are bring closeness and happiness between them.
After 5 years of marriage wife and husband will have differences in their opinions and arguments. Wife may like white color and husband may like blue color. On Sunday husband may ask you to prepare special food items and wife want to watch programs in television. Like this there will be a lot. So just think for how many days such difference will be between you both. Instead of trying to change others, happiness has hidden in getting compromise and prepares special food or desired food items which you husband asked. Behaving according to the others interest improves affection and love. Suppose you added more salt in a curry, you husband may scold you and you family also. At that situation being calm and if possible moving from that place is the best solution. Later try to make your husband understand that, if any problem or mistake done then that should be solved by talking and discussing but not scolding especially scolding other family is not correct. So making him understand all these, quarrels will be avoided.
After coming home, also, if you are busy with the office work and calls. Then it is not at all correct and this may create distance between you and your wife. Helping each other and understanding is the best solution. First plan everything correctly and try to complete office work in office itself. After coming home, don’t be busy completely with the work. Try to spend weekends with each other. Try to keep a rule that is, if you watch television or read book then you should read book or watch tv at once. Then the word distance will feel scare to be between you.
You may have small arguments with your husband and you may share it with your mother or friend or colleague. But that does not end there. Because from here the matter updating starts by you without your knowledge. Finally the result is, everyone will get know about you. Though the problem is small but no need to share with others. You may not talk with each other for 1 or 2 days but you both only talk to each other and solve the problem but you should not need to enter third person. If other person interferes then you both won’t be having freedom. Their thoughts may make you misunderstand your life partner.
Husband may spend money a lot. He may waste money and you may feel he did not save single rupee for children and you may argue and quarrel with him daily. But your husband won’t stop his expenses and more over he may ask you to save money. Most of the husbands says that you will never change and scold wife’s family members. Actually her family member is not correct that to, after 5 years is not at all correct.
Marriage joins to families. So wife and husband should need to adjust with each other and strengthen their relationship. Wife and husband should need to respect each other.
When you need to attend any occasions and if any of your life partner does not like to attend then you should convenience the other and both attend the occasions. Try to attend all the invitations from husband side.
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