Publicly criticizing others is an art for someone, without knowing the others. It must be done like this. It must have been done like that. Likewise someone will tell according to their own opinion. But understanding others is not so easy. It is a very, very difficult task. He placed himself in a position to understand the fact that someone will have. To be honest If only placed the difficulty of their situation, problems, everything is the nature of the problems he will face. Then only we could understand the problem of others very clearly.

Others may be good. We would be mistaken. The concept is difficult to understand in their hearts. You cannot understand the thoughts of others from outside. Evaluating others very very hard. If we think someone is a good person, they may be bad. A lot of dangers are caused by such an evil person. 

We are doing lots of criticism about Gurujis. We will not criticize Gurus who we have followed. We used to criticize the Guru's who we do not follow. We should not do so. Even so, we say that the desire to make money, they are doing the wrong things. Some people keep the same, always blaming others. This is the wrong approach. We need to change our attitude. 

We can take a look about a small story. One day a girl come to home very, very late. Everyone started to criticize her. People in her home said, she may tell the reason for the delay before itself. They keep searching her here and there. 

Neighbours said she may have some lover, she may be escaped with him. They keep Gossiping about her character.  People who are relation of her wounded by the words of others. They feel bad about that and got very angry. She returned home at midnight. Everyone started scolding of her. But no one asks for the reason why she came late. She missed all the buses because of the heavy crowd. Then she had caught the bus late and return to home. 

This was the real reason. But all blamed her without knowing the reason. Midnight returning is not good. In a few cases, when it occurs, but it is inevitable. We should not able to avoid those inevitable moments. We could adjust according to our situations. Criticism is not good. So don't criticise the others easily. It should be avoided. Love all. Serve all. Live a very, very happy and peaceful life. 


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