Everybody likes to have friends and relatives and many of us would like to have friends around us.  We derive great satisfaction in  inviting them to our homes or take them to a restaurant and share our happiness with them.  It is also very common that friends visit our homes without our invitation and vice versa.  While one must consider lucky to have friends and relatives one must give importance to timings while visiting them specially if uninvited.

Avoid Afternoon visits on holidays:- Many people after a tired weeks work in all probability are enjoying a good sleep.  If you go on visit them they have to get up from their relaxation mode.  Even though they would be talking well to you, they would not able to give you the expected warmth because they are still in sleepy or tired mode.  Again their concentration levels would be poor at that point of time and would not be able to listen attentively to what you are saying.  They also would not be able to share many things with you which otherwise they would have shared with you at normal times.  As a result of this you sometimes tend to get the feeling of being felt unwanted.

Late night visits on usual working days:- It is never advisable to visit a person after ten or eleven in the night.  Invariably they person would be feeling sleepy and tired and however close you are in all likelihood you are unwelcome at that time.

Visiting relatives staying in  Congested Houses:- If you have a relative living in a congested house, do not visit them very often.  While you may not have a complex and are very comfortable visiting him, the host who stays in a congested house would be feeling guilty accommodating you especially if you are rich person  and accustomed to all facilities at your home and workpace.  If you go with your family to his home, then it becomes even more difficult for the host as their family is bound to feel guilty for not being able to keep you comfortable.

Being in touch with your friends and relatives is very good, but meeting them at a comfortable time and making them feel comfortable is even better.

Regards

Satish

• Written by N R SATISH.
• In category General Reference.
• 14 years ago.

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