If Situation can't be changed,then accept it
Life doesn’t goes in the way as we want. We have to go, where the life takes us. We have to face the challenges which the life gives us. Time always changes and we never know what can happen next. That is the principle of life to change and give lots of challenges to the people. Various situations come in our life, where we can take a U- turn and move back. We have to face and prove to our perfection. We can’t avoid those situations. Any situation, time and moment, if you can change, then, you should do anything to make changes. But if you can’t, just let it be and accept it, because that will be the best solution for you.
On Every step we move forward, life test us. If we know the answer to that test, we feel that the Test was very easy. The tough test is indeed a tough for us. We never think that why those answer to question was tough, it was because we don’t have the solution for it. To know the answers we have to find the answers. We have to find the right key to open those set of questions which we don’t know.
One Child told to his father that when I would be free from this education, from these Exams? By laughing father said till the life is with you, this education, this exam will be till there. At present you are studying, you are having syllabus, you are having your books, you are having guide, and the main thing that you know very well that when your Exams are there. After your Education ends, the real life will start. At that time, there will be no exams, you will not have books with you, you will not have guide with you, also you will not have the timetable with you, and suddenly there will be problems and situations where you will given the sum and you have to solve to move forward. For every situation, you have to ready.
In Examination, there are many questions which are compulsory to solve. You have to give answer to those questions. Life also has that same rule. There are some questions, which we have to solve. We don’t have any option. You have to Pass or clear in that exam. In life we have to get happiness. There are various situations which will arrive to you and you have to determine yourself that you have to clear and win that situation for you, for your family and for the prosperity. But all humans don’t have strong heart and most of the humans give up and start crying. This is not fair. We many times think that why me? Why I only suffer? I am innocent. I have got the punishment without been guilty. Why this kind of responsibilities and problems came to me? Such type of questions, such type of complaint is of no use. Don’t question any one, just find the answer. If you will find the answers, you will get it. There is always a solution for a particular problem. Nothing is impossible. At Various occasion we only run away from the solution.
Many times, we only burn our self internally. Our soul burns. We do or die. We keep de- motivating our self in this. There will be loss of ours only. We just give up towards our life. We just want to liberate our self from life. This can’t be done. Struggle is a part of life and every human being struggle to survive. We are not the special for GOD. For GOD everyone is equal. We should fight with the life and should get it what we want from the life. How much humans are intelligent and understandable can’t be recognized by his/her talk but how he/she handles the situation, the destiny which comes to him/her and he/she comes out victoriously from the situation. There are many people who are very good in giving advice, but when they themselves have to handle any situation, they also give up. Always remember that people will talk about you. They will advice you. They don’t have to face the challenge, its ultimately you have to face the challenges and problems, so it is very important how you feel? How you understand your problem?
When life doesn’t give an option, it is ultimately you have to find the options. Life is not a Quiz or any question where you are having 4 answers of it. The quiz of life is such that, there you will find the questions, but answers are not there. There are only questions. First you have to solve the question and get few answers and from those few answers you have to choose the appropriate one for yourself. For your happiness, develop yourself to find those options for you and from that choose a good and best option for yourself. It is not necessary that every time you will get the correct answer. If it is not correct, still accept it.
If the problem you are facing is more difficult, then don’t worry, some day or other you will get the solution. There are many people in this world, who face problems and fight with that. If you have committed mistake, don’t worry. There is not a single human being in this earth, who has not committed mistake. Don’t run from the situation, face it and fight with it. If you will run from situation, then situation will follow you and won’t leave you. You are the decider of your life.
Most of times, we are sad, because we run from the situations and we are not ready to accept the situation. Any human being who fight with the situation he faces, is less sad and remain happy for long term. When you have only one way to go, then you can’t say that fault is of the way you have taken. When you will go more forward, then the new ways would open for you. But most of times, we just stay there and find the ways. If you want to move forward, then you have to leave one place and go to another.
One child was born in the jungle. The Parents of that child was living in jungle. In the jungle itself, that child was born & brought up by his parents. Once another human, was roaming in the jungle and they both met each other. Human told that I have came here outside of the jungle. He asked to the child that do you know outside of this jungle, there is one city? There life is very different from jungle. Do you want to come with me? That person who was living in jungle told that No, I don’t want to come. I am happy here. The human who was from outside, told that this is your assumption. You have accepted the happiness, where you are. Without seeing outside, how you have decided that you are happy here and you will be feel sad, when you will go outside. Many times, we just think that wherever we are, we are happy and we don’t try to go beyond that area. We should always try to go beyond our limit and should see what are the other thing, that could give us happiness. If we don’t try, then we will never understand what is beyond our limit.
In the life, we also do this same thing which this man, who has grown up in jungle is doing. We never come out of the life we are living and we assume that beyond this life, there we will only get sadness and nothing else. It is true that we don’t get happiness always, when we go beyond, from where are right now, but to stop there and should not try to go beyond is also not fair. We just stop thinking and that makes our life more tense.
Do you never realized that you are jam- pack from inside(from soul)? We should come outside, live a good and amazing life, which we want to live. From our assumption, there is lot more to see in the life, there is lot more to experience life. If we will live in darkness, it is possible that we would fall in love with the darkness and when we will come in light, then it is possible that we fear from light. But we have to come out and find the solution for our happiness. If you can change the situation, then you should definitely to change. The construction of your happiness, it only in the hands of you. Happiness is never hidden, we just need to keep our eyes open to get it.
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