Questions to be asked before Marriage?
Introduction
Marriage is very important part and decision of our life. With Marriage there comes lot of responsibilities and sometimes our liberty and freedom is also restricted. Before having marriage, you have to prepare yourself not only physically but also mentally. But, more important than this, is that you should collect more and more information about your life partner. For knowing this, you have to find lot of answers of the question which you are having in your mind. Before marrying, you should know about sex relation, relationships with friends, love and romance so that in future you don’t have to deal with problems in your marital life. So, now let’s talk about those questions which are very necessary for you to know before marriage.
First meeting with boy
Before marriage, when boy and girl meets then it is not necessary that you both should talk about your past. Also, talking about past is not at all good. So, you should avoid your past and then talk about what is happening in present. But there are some questions which are necessary to ask. Generally, when the boy and girl meet each other and talk, then at that time girl come across thinking and personality of the boy. You also come across his liking and disliking of each other. So, in future this talk could be helpful to you.
Questions prior to marriage
After marriage, your partner will give priority to his career or to you. If he is going to give priority of career then how the other things would be managed. If you are Women, then you would be allowed to do the job or not. What is your profession? What are the office timings? What is your job profile? Do you want to live in joint family or want to live alone with your life partner? If you want to live in joint family, then would you like to live by sharing everything or in a joint family you would like to have all things separate? These talks are also important.
Whether your life partner wants to live with the family or alone with you, you should not forget to discuss about financial condition of life partner. How he would deal with the financial responsibilities? Where he will like to invest his income and what are the schemes in which he is interested to invest? The opinion of both of you, in such things is very important, so that in future you don’t have to face difficulty in handing.
One more question becomes very important. You should ask that this marriage is the decision of him/her. You should take care that marriage is done in force of other family members. There should be will of both boy and girl in having marriage. You should take care that your partner is happy with this marriage. Is he/she ready for the responsibility or not?
You should try to know the hobbies of your partner. What kind of talk your partner likes? What kind of serious talk in which your partner can talk? What are your partner’s favorite destinations where your partner would like to go? Did your partner ever dated with anyone? Is your partner interested in going for dating?
Before marriage what your partner thinks about Romance? Before marriage what is the opinion of your partner about sex? Will your partner be having the same relation with his friends after marriage? Will the hanging around with friends would be same, as your partner would be doing before marriage?
In the Family what kind of reputation your life partner possess? Is partner’s parents and family members are interested in his/her hobbies? Is the family members are happy with the behavior of your life partner? When the family members discuss on any serious issues, then Is your partner’s opinions are taken in consideration or ever taken? Such things are also important you to know.
It is very important you to know what are the goals of your life partner? What is the goal at which your life partner wants to reach? Is your life partner would like to have an unique identity in the society or due to his financial condition your life partner would just like to work on job? This thing will make you clear about the personality which your life partner posses.
You could also ask the dream of your life partner? And everyone likes to tell about the dream which he/she possess. Family management is also an important question. It feels awkward to ask about how many kids you want? If you think that you are only going to be his/her life partner, then you can surely ask your life partner about honey-moon. When your life partner would like to go on honey-moon? You can even decide the place to go.
So, these are some questions which you can ask from your life partner before marriage. There are various questions here, which are necessary for your knowledge. I would suggest you to be steady and free of mind when you meet the boy for very first time.
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