Tips to Save our marriage Relationship.
What is the reason of failure of Marriage relationship? According to the survey there is almost 60 percent of marriages fail.This will give a real pain in both sides after separation.Marriage brings two unknown people closer to each other.They start enjoying their future life with each other.At the time of marriage their thought and ideas were different from each other.They try to adjust their nature with their partner nature.If you want to extend your marriage for a longer duration then you have to keep patience and have a strong feeling for each other.Faith is the pillar of this relationship.Challenges are increasing day to day for a couple.Today they look for their financial condition,look for their career in various fields as well as look their child too.To keep your marriage life strong follow this idea in your day to day life.Always respect each other.
Keep love and affection to your partner
Affection is the bond of relationship that develops an attachment among both the couples. When you deal affection it looks a little bond that keeps your relationship alive. It is a big tool in keeping your relationship strong and healthy.
Some of the gestures must present in your relationship
Kissing, Holding other partner's hands and hugging is some of the such type of gestures that show your affection and immense love for your partner. When your partner is not in happy mood then this small gesture can very effective. Intimacy is one of the basic things that keep your marriage strong and effective. You should have sufficient time for your partner so that you can show your love by physical as well as mentally.
The path of communication is always open between two couples
If you communicate with your partner frequently then your marriage life stays longer and stronger. The communication path is of two sided. Both couples must be able to communicate. It looks a small deal but at Quarrel situation this communication is very helpful to solve their Quarrel. When we talk frequently to our partner then you can easily know their thoughts and what they think of each other. If this talk is not up to the mark then this relationship cannot move further. To solve day to day problem in your relationship this communication idea is a big weapon. You can solve all type of problem related to marriage with this weapon. Misunderstanding can be solved only when you talk with your partner. If you escape this communication then no one can save your relationship. The meaning of the communication is not only to give your words to your partner. You must listen our partner thought too. This way both can find a solution of a problem that arise in their relationship. To solve their problem in easy way you must communicate with your partner and hear their words peacefully.
Develop your relationship in the form of a couple
To keep your relationship strong and continue your marriage life for a longer duration must develop as a couple.When your relationship develops in the form of a couple then your marriage life become stronger and happier for a longer duration of time.Some of the similar activities that can perform by both of the partners.It will increase the bond of love and affection between them.If both partners perform the same activities then they can help each other and this increases love between them.Try to take part in your partner's happy moment.Take interest in their hobby and activities.Just behave like a friend.Just store all moments in a photo frame. This will show your affection and love for a longer duration of time.
Apart from developing in form of couple, Each partner develops their individual identity too
Every person needs some identity individually.So that they have some respect in the mind of another partner.First of all we need to know all things about ourselves.First improves ourself and then others.If fault is found in ourself then how this relationship continue.To know yourself is important because without knowing ourselves how can I know and understand the need and demand of our partner in a better way.Your contribution must bigger than your partner.This show how much you love your partner.Apart from the relationship, you must spend some time with your loving friends too.This can make you happy.If you are happy then it makes your partner's happy too.Try to keep satisfied both sides in a better way.By your activities your partner may not mind it.You spend your time with your important friends but for a limited period of time.
The last and the most important fact in any relationship is Trust
You must trust your partner.When a couple gets married then the bond of trust is also developing between them.Never lose that trust in your whole marriage life.Loosing trust means loosing relationship.This trust is very important pillar in your relationship.If this pillar become weak then it will make your relationship weak too.To keep your marriage relationship for a longer duration of period.This trust is a very important weapon.There is some issue in every relationship but never lose this trust.At the time when you feel that this is the last stage of your relationship.Then try to solve problem by itself if you are not able to solve this problem then take help of other expert in that field.
Why we do marriage?
Because we like other and want to spend our whole life with each other. At first stage of marriage it looks simple. But as time increases there is a quarrel between both. At that stage we cannot live happily. At the early stage there is no problem. But after some year this relationship becomes bored and we lose interest for our partner. At that time relationship looked burden. As the years passed we came to know some of the unknown facts about our partner. We try to separate from our partner. In this article there are six things that can be done at the last time of quarrel.
These six things we must do are as follows
A. Try to recall that we got married because we love each other and having a deep faith in each other
Try to recall all qualities that develop a feeling for one partner in the heart of another partner. First of all mention all qualities about your partner on a piece of paper then read all qualities in front of your partner. Just indicate your partner about your love and affection. Indicate your partner that he/she miss your partner if they left him/her alone. It develops a new hope in your relationship.
B. Just recall about your children
Just recall your partner that we both bring our children into our family as well as in this world. There is a peace and healthy condition of your beloved children. This will again give some ray of hope that might save your relationship. Our children want their parents to live together in a peaceful way.
C. Recall your partner that the problem is not big. It can be solved. Just keep positive thinking
Just recall your partner that after some years we forget this problem completely. At that time this problem cannot look important as now.
D. After separation a time come when one partner search for another partner
A person can realize their mistake after performing that mistake. In the same way we also realize our mistake after our separation.At that time there was no chance to get back. That time no other person can help you .You only think for your beloved partner.
E. You must realize that a happy marriage life want hard work and lots of Patience
Every relationship has stayed alive by our hard work. We must be patience and calm at bad situation. Just show your partner that they are best and superior .It is my promise that this mistake never repeat in a future relationship.
F. Just Remember that I am best for you and after separation if you got married to other partner then the chance of divorce increases to a larger extend.
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