How to maintain a good relationship after Marriage.
1. Happiness is totally depends upon yours.
No one other person can make you happy. It totally depends upon you. It is your duties to keep yourself happy. You can make relationship with another. Take some joy and happiness from your partner side but it does not totally depend on your partner to make you happy and take out you from every bad situation. You have to maintain some of the facts that keep you happy.
A. The first thing you have to do just improve your mind status.
If you are in a relationship then it does not mean that this relationship can sort out your all problem from your life. It is not possible every time. Your hope some contribution from your partner side. The rest of the contribution comes from your hobby, from your family members, from your friend circle, from your job status and much more. This all part contribute something to your happiness. It is not good to depend on your partner totally for your happiness.
B. The second removes all kinds of depression from your mind.
If you found yourself in a depression and nothing remove your depression then quickly move to a psychiatrist and discuss all sorts of depression in front of him/her. Your relationship can be affected by your depression. So it is necessary to remove all sorts of depression of mind. You cannot consult with your partner about this depression and your partner cannot solve this problem because your partner is not a psychiatrist.
2. There must be a proper time your relationship.
Try to spend as much time as you can spend with your partner. It can strength your relationship. Give proper time to your partner even this is a first stage of your relationship. The relationship becomes deeper when you share something to your partner. Just share your experience with your partner. This sharing is an important weapon that keeps your relationship strong and healthy.
A. Join your partner in their hobby.
You come closer to each other and your relationship become stronger and stronger when you perform something together as a hobby. Just accepts your partner's hobby. Try to find something that is common to both partner and enjoy it as one. You may try anything Such as Games, learn new thing farther, movies, party, boating etc.
B. Small activities can make your relationship stronger.
Help your partner in a small activity. This show how caring you are. Indicate your partner that you are ready to help your partner in any situation and even in a small thing that cannot matter a lot. Even a small activity can make your partner happy enough. Just do because you want to help him. Never except for return help.
3. There must be a good communication between both the partner.
Communication is a necessary part of your relationship. Many people cannot know how to talk with another partner in a proper manner. It is an art and you have to learn it. Must talk to your partner. It looks small deal but this is a real weapon. You can solve all types of problem by talking to your partner.
A. Never take your partner that looks like you are imposing your decision on your partner.
Never use a directive words such as "you must" and "you should not" in any relationship. Both partners are same and never think that you are the boss and you can impose your decision on your partner.
B. Just express your words in front of your partner.
If you have a something exception of your partner side then say this exception in front of your partner. Never think about the fact that your partner accepts this or not. Does not use a significant symbol in your communication. Your demand should be clear and straightforward. This can remove all confusion between both partners.
C. Use words such as "Thanks" and "Please" in your communication.
In front of your partner you have to lose yourself. Don't think this as a same for you. If your partner is engaging in some other work then at that time use this two word if you want something from your partner side.
D. Does not communicate with your partner in a negative manner.
Never make any kinds of argument with your partner in a negative manner. Just try your best to escape from this argument. Just talk to your partner in a way that love your partner. Never response your partner using loud noise. If you found that your partner got insulted from your words, quickly say sorry to your partner. Try not to repeat this thing again and again in your relationship.
4. Just try to become a realist.
Where there is a relationship there is a negative argument. Just solve this argument quickly as possible. If you solve such type of argument quickly the your relationship become stronger. Never continue this argument for longer duration of time. It can affect your relationship.
A. Never expect your partner as 100% perfection in every field of life.
Never think that your partner is 100%. You accept both things related to your partner. Either it is good qualities or bad Qualities. If you accept both good or bad qualities of your partner then this relationship goes further.
B. Try to accept all sorts of problem and conflict.
If you want that your relationship stay longer than you have to accept some of the conflict that occur in between you and your partner. It is not possible that only one conflict can end your relationship become brave and accept that conflict. Just remember that your partner is a human being and any human being cannot accept all kinds of argument.
5. Just commit your fault in front of your partner.
Whenever you come to know that you do something wrong and it will disturb your partner. At that moment commit your mistake in front of your partner. Just apologize your mistake in a peaceful way that suits your partner. Never use any kinds of excuse for your mistake.
A. Make promises to your partner that you must change your behavior.
Suppose that same mistake is repeated by you. Then at that moment just promise your partner that this kind of mistake is due to behavior. I must change my behavior in future relationships. Make notes to your partner that I am fully aware that same mistake is repeated. I am trying to stop such kind of mistakes in my future life. Request your partner that they make me aware this mistake in future life.
6. Make yourself brave enough so that you can easily forgive your partner mistake.
The exact meaning of forgiveness is that a person try to focus on their future life after free from mistake committed today. We must take control of your future life without thinking of your past.
A. Giving forgiveness to another is really a good idea and having lots of advantages.
It also releases your mind too. Give forgive to another and free from any kind of anger and bad thinking about your partner. Forgiveness is a fact that gives benefit to both of you. It is not for an individual.
7. Make a habit so that one partner supports other partner.
Always ready to help your partner. It cannot depend on any particular condition. Feeling of help has remained same as for all the situation. You live together because you love each other. So never hesitate to give help to other partner. Helping others can have following demonstration.
- Always become an excellent listener for your partner.
- Suppose that your partner wants to say something in your ear. Allow your partner to do that.
- It is not necessary that you help your partner with a solution. Your partner only wants your support to solve a particular problem.
- Just encourage your partner for any kinds of activities they want to perform.
- Most important needs of your partner are safe surrounding. Just give your partner a safe and secure home environment.
- Just make your partner fearless. So that they can put their words in front of you without any fear.
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