Is forgiving easy or forgetting?

Is forgiving easy or forgetting?

Category: Family & Relationships 4 years ago
sophia ajaz
Asked 4 years ago

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Forgiving is not easy as revenge is the natural reaction. To err is human and to figive divine.  It is not easy for a norman human to act divine. But some are really divine and they easily forgive. As a policy, it is better to fogive on petty issues that don harm much. It is also okay to forgive when the erring person sincerely seeks pardon. But the really wicked should not be forgiven and appropriate lawful action should be taken against them.  

Gulshan Kumar Ajmani
Answered 4 years ago
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani

It is easy to forgive than forget something. Actually forgiving someone for something is also not easy but it is much better to forgive for it helps us find peace with ourselves.

Kalyani Nandurkar
Answered 4 years ago
Kalyani Nandurkar

To forgive somebody or forget the whole incident depends on your mindset. Forgiving is a conscious action and is comparatively an easy job that you can do depending upon the situations and your conscience. Forgetting happens naturally but without your conscious effort. It is difficult to forget because it is related to your memories.  

RAMAKRISHNAN. A
Answered 4 years ago
RAMAKRISHNAN. A

It needs to be  strong to say sorry. One should be more stronger and bold to forgive..A weak cannot forgive. " Forgiveness is the attribute of strong". It is divine.

rambabu
Answered 4 years ago
rambabu

It depends on the circumstances, if the hurt is very deep it is not easy to neither forgive nor forget although it is better to do so in life and move on...

usha manohar
Answered 4 years ago
usha manohar

For me its forgetting which has always become difficult. It have tried hard, but if you are hurt even after forgiving, forgetting becomes difficult.

Ronark Bhardwaj
Answered 4 years ago
Ronark Bhardwaj

It depends on who you wish to forgive and forget. With different people and different situations the way forgetting and forgiving works also differs.

Mousumi Ghosh
Answered 4 years ago
Mousumi Ghosh

Both are difficult for a common person. But great people can do it easily.

Manoj Kumar Lamba
Answered 4 years ago
Manoj Kumar Lamba

        We all are know the famous saying is , "God forgive, Men forget". 

This is the general nature of human being. If we want to forget anything it is not easy to do. On the other hand you always thing about that. But if you want forgive from your soul it is so easy. Your mental pressure is exactly gone.

Arignar Anna's famous saying is "Forget,Forgive" 

 

M.Thamarai Selvi
Answered 4 years ago
M.Thamarai Selvi

Forgiving is easy than forgetting

 

Answered 4 years ago

Personally, I feel both are tough but if one learn to forget and forgive then life becomes easier. I always believe one can forget only when he/she is able to forgive. So, for me it's like 'to forget' is followed by 'to forgive'.  

Shampa Sadhya
Answered 4 years ago
Shampa Sadhya

Being a human, both forgiving and forgetting is not easy, but trying to forgive someone and by forgetting the bad incident that happened to you is the only way to keep your mind healthy and will also keep your grudges away. Unless we don't forgive and forget, these grudges keep on accumulating and ultimately bad elements like jealousy, resentment, anger, etc start finding their way into our thoughts.

Bajirao
Answered 4 years ago
Bajirao

Forgiving or forgetting both are not so easy tasks. We can't forget anything unless and otherwise we forgive them. But forgiving is not so easy task also but we have to forgive then for our own peace of mind . If we don't forgive, the issue will be bugging us like thats. So forgiving will be a better thing to do then we can forget it.

Sreematrana
Answered 2 years ago
Sreematrana

My father always used to say, "It takes a minute to break a relationship and lifetime to maintain it".

Similarly most of us choose to forgive our near and dear ones most of the time to keep our relations alive. However, even when we want we are never able to forget the hurt he or she caused us. And reliving the moment brings back the pain but even then we move on.

So I believe forgiving is easier than forgetting.

Anchal
Answered 3 years ago
Anchal

forgiving or forgetting depends upon the situation and the person

sarala
Answered 3 years ago
sarala

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