Living separately after breakup or living together with breakup......Which one is more painful?
I thought so after knowing the real-life experience of a classmate of mine, a single-child to her parents, rich and the most beautiful girl of our class. But she never allowed any boy to come close to her, though she was a fantasy to most of them in our class. She got married twice and both the marriages resulted in divorce. Most painful that both the marriages had a short span of just one month, a time when bonding between the spouses just starts to flourish. First one was ended from her side, and second one from his side though she tried maximum to stick on to it. It has been around 5 years now. Yet she has not recovered that. Through her thoughts, I feel that it's 'our ruling society' where she has to live than the breakups and pain given by spouses which hurts her most. How to face society, how to live here, what will people think about her etc etc.
Let me ask. There are hundreds and thousands of troubled relationships and unhappy people in our society. Only a few end in divorces, while others adjust with the life they get (fearing society is also a factor). There are many cases (in man and woman) where they desire a lot but never get love and care from their spouses, and still remain in relationship receiving pain and disrespect only.
Which condition is more painful? To live after divorce/breakup blaming the fate or witness heartbreaks each and every day (often physical abuses), yet remain in the relationship without any ray of hope? In my friend's case, I feel that as she has moved on, there is no point in thinking about old happenings and should start a new life ( I am not saying about marriage it's her wish, but a good job, or some social work to distract herself from those evil thoughts which can never do good for her). It's my opinion, but I know it's not that easy for a beautiful girl to remain single in the society, as her parents are old now, which is also a concern.
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