If we live in a society, it's not easy to stay isolated. We communicate with people, and based on the experiences we judge people, basically it's human trait. But it's possible to keep this behaviour in control, if we try so. We humans easily forget helps and remembers and recollects bad events most.
I feel that we should judge people after a long observation and it should never be a hasty act. It helps us to be vigilant against bad people, bad behaviour, outcome etc. I have less interaction with neighbours as I live in a strange city, and for the same reason I get less opportunity to judge others. Personally I don't judge people who have less to do with my personal life, though I stay alert. I give less significance to those who just stay in neighbourhood, I see him/her everyday etc etc.. I don't spent my brain energy on them, but on relations which need frequent monitoring. What about you?
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|Very impressive post.... Yes, I agree with you. In the first few meetings, a person may hide inside him many things he may not want to show you. It's only after a few observations he can judge a person and his character, thought may be up to 50%. Every person is bounded to change at any point of time, may be after a few circumstances too..... I and you too..... - Sandhya Rani - 3 years ago|
|Yes we need. It helps us to communicate with a person in a better way. We may judge a person - positively or negatively based on our experiences. What I feel is, judging others can help us in a positive way, as long as we don't fall into conclusions easily counting just one or two events. Same is the case of we people too. We may be going through a bad phase of life, or just had a hot debate with someone near. Our behaviour soon after such a circumstance may not go well with someone unaware of such facts. We may be judged wrongly, unfortunate but true - Sandhya Rani - 3 years ago|
|I agree - usha manohar - 3 years ago|
|Thank you - Sandhya Rani - 3 years ago|
|There are many chances of betrayal, if we interact with people of society without knowing what they carry in mind? Very often it becomes a necessity, not a hobby. Within limits everything is fine. When it crosses the borders, it creates problems. Misinterpretation of people around us make it difficult to mingle with others - Sandhya Rani - 3 years ago|
|Definitely. One should be well within limits. - rambabu - 3 years ago|
|Totally agree with that because it is part of our mental make up that our past experiences and lifestyle does have an impact.. - usha manohar - 3 years ago|
|@Arunima, We need not regret so that we judged people. It may happen in sub-conscious mind too... Afterall we all are humans, Come on. Only thing is we should never draw to easy conclusions judging people, and we should never spend our precious time and brain too much for such matters..... - Sandhya Rani - 3 years ago|
|very true - Arunima Singh - 3 years ago|