If someone leaves you without telling anything

I strongly believe that, if you want to end a relationship, either friendship, business or romantic, you should not leave it behind without uttering a word. You need to tell the other person, for these reasons I would like to leave you. I feel that ending a relationship abruptly without telling anything is nothing short of a revenge. Openly discussing many things without hiding in mind can give a new life to many falling relations. Do you agree with me?

Written by Category: Family & Relationships 3 years ago
Sandhya Rani

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Definitely I agree with you. Ending a relationship without discussing with your partner, the reasons for ending the relationship is a Coward's act. This kind of behavior either from a  man or woman is really shameful and in my view, such acts should be condemned by all means

Sandhya Rani it's not just a spouse relationship or romance, friendly relations too. Friends, relatives, neighbours, colleagues etc - Sandhya Rani - 3 years ago

I  believe in open discussion and put my thoughts on the table. Naturally, I would expect the same from others and will definitely respect one's thought. If there is any contradiction then I would try to clear the doubt and will expect the other side to give me that very opportunity. If I am not told about one's decision openly then I would feel betrayed. 

Shampa Sadhya
Sandhya Rani " If I am not told about one's decision openly then I would feel betrayed. " well said - Sandhya Rani - 3 years ago
Shampa Sadhya Thank you Sandhya - Shampa Sadhya - 3 years ago

Better and proper conversation makes a strong relationship as it provides comfortable understanding between two individuals. If any person leaves his relationship without thinking a moment and without trying to continue it with must required conversation with whom he had a relationship then that person doesn't deserve to have any relationship. 

Aditya tripathi

I have a different take on this . For anyone to leave suddenly , either there has to be a solid reason or the relationship has not really been satisfactory or good. If there is communication and a certain level of understanding such a thing is unlikely to happen..

usha manohar
Sandhya Rani A third person if he is crooked can also do so many things, definitely a wrong path, may take a promise as well, and for the same reason he/she may not reveal the reason why he/she is going far away. - Sandhya Rani - 3 years ago
usha manohar That depends entirely on you as to how easily you were led by a third person. It is in our own interest not to trust people unless proven - usha manohar - 3 years ago
Sandhya Rani well said - Sandhya Rani - 3 years ago

Lack of closure in a relationship is something that can linger forever. Its more complicated and hurtful. people make a way to do what they want. Remind yourself that if the person wants to talk to you, they will.

Karuna Sapra
Sandhya Rani Hi Karuna, seeing you after a long break - Sandhya Rani - 3 years ago

Maybe the best way is to leave without giving any reason. That will help if the person decided to come back and give an apt excuse for his separation.


Open discussions are important in a relationship whether to sustain it with zeal or it end it. If someone leaves without saying, one feels betrayed and cheated. It is wrong. 

But there are times when silence speaks louder than words. So let's look into what preceeded the bitterness in the relationship. Was it ever a healthy relationship with equal say of both involved or did one dominated and other suffocated and chose to walk away

Arunima Singh

Agree with you. There should always be open communication between people, as it benefits all.

Sheetal Kumar N

Open communication should be there but for some relations such your colleagues who try to take advantage of you, I think leaving or taking break from them without saying anything is fine. 

arjun sai

Yes I agree. One should discuss with a person in relationship before breaking it. Sometimes there are many things in our minds which may be cleared with the discussion 

Sanjeev Gupta

Agree. If there is no communication before moving away, there is always a chance of mis understanding due to which the relationship gets away.

Hence a few views as to why we are putting an end to this relationship is quite essential. It also gives an equal opportunity to both to understand who is at fault.

It also means that people can introspect and what they could do thereafter to improve the current relationship or to take the lessons to the relationships on hand and which are bound to develop in the future.


I totally agree with the discussions. sharing of thoughts and reasons can help us a lot. communication slove all the issues and misunderstandings in relations and sometimes helps to create strong relationship so before leaving our partner, friends, relatives we should explain reasons at least onces.

Nidhi Rajput

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