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I think, when you're in mass, others thinking and views superimposed on you. And in between boys, when you're in mass, you will definitely judge someone wrongly because of superimposion of thoughts but when you're alone you may not judge, even you will not think about him/her.
So I think your personal view should be come out and that's what will not be bad, so we call it Judging. And you shouldn't give your views on every matter and people's.
A lot depends on our perception and prejudices. We all tend to have different upbringing and go through different situations in life. Our perception and prejudices come out of those and we base our judgement on that. We have to consciously try to widen our thoughts by being open to different opinions and views.
Actually I try to stay away from social life so that I get less opportunity to judge others. I just want to be more self-dependent. When it comes to your question, definitely physical appearance is of less importance comparing with the behavior of a person. The person's deeds, behavior in public place, how he responds to a situation (calm or explosive) as well as how he behaves with me - all these factors can influence me to take a opinion about him or simply judge him. Sometimes, in the next meeting my opinion may change. So, it's not right to judge someone in the first or second meeting. Give a little time, otherwise we may end up wrong judging him. When a person is in distress, he may not behave the way we expect. But in real life he may be a polite person. Some people are good actors too, to get our favours. They may act polite and good till their job is done.
I think to judge someone means to project oneself as an authority which is a symptom of Unilateralism . We can have opinions on someone but not the judgement. To be judgemental is to narrow own space of free thinking.
Answered 5 months ago
I think we all judge others depending on their manners, attitude and how they carry. But let me make it clear that we should not impose or even show our judgement.