A Tale Of Love And Marriage
"Never Love A Love That Hurts, Never Hurt A Love That Loves"
Love Comes Once?
Is Love an emotion? Is Love a feeling? Anyway, we must try to understand and experience Love at least once in our life time. And I would say "Love is an ability"(actually I heard this dialogue in a film, starring Steve Carrel) , an ability or a state where there is no one who could stay not loving. Ask yourself whether "Love comes once?" then you will find the answer within the question itself.
Love is a fountain of happiness or a falls of best feelings or a jungle of true affection, every single human being in their life must or will experience this ABILITY TO LOVE. Sometimes someone might have failed to express their Love to some special one, those guys/girls need not worry. Such great experience would always occur with someone who is hyper-special!
Love without Lust always stays long and strong and very special and true too. The most known truth is that whenever two people are Truly in Love , there is no way or chance for a third person to intrude. Some unhealthy thoughts or the not-understanding-us-society or some cultural paths or regulations or some physical defects may tend to separate true love and true lovers but deep within the heart their Love never cracks even a bit!.
Such separated Love or Lovers will be given another chance to Love or to be Loved in the upcoming ages, where you will again find trueness and affection that stays longer and happily ever after. On the contrary it is not possible to Love a person/day!!.But it is possible again to Love.
Obstacle In The Path Of LOVE!
[NO OBSTACLE IN TRUE LOVE]
There are many hindrance in Loves Path. Of these obstacles there lies the Community,Religion,Money,Status and Parents!. Though Lovers are truly united with True Love problems raise when it comes to religion or community. If there is an option of changing community or religion so lovers could stay united, who would change community? the boy? or girl? even after this interchange will they whole heartedly accept the change?. Answer: NO.
You will become a LOVE TERRORIST when you love someone off your community or religion. But such community or religion wasn't given birth in a single family. The true fact is "Science won't accept community or religions, where it perfectly fits the educated people, on the other hand Our Feelings won't stay not accepting community or religion " on such conditions even True Love of different communities fail!.
There is no answer for "Who is going to change the community or religion??". The expression of a Lover "I'll Do It For You" expresses that "Lets do it". So there could not be any "Let-me-do-it" or "I'll-let-you-do-it" in True Love. Its just "US" in True Love. It is legitimate when two people of different community or religion to marry. This is where the main problem arises after the marriage the couple would give birth to a child, now then "What community or religion does the child belong to?" and this is the problem.
Love Marriage Becomes Peevish, Why?
Love marriage becomes unworthy when you marry the opposite sex with a sense of lust. The mistakes the lovers do when loving are: not expressing yourself fully to your lover,not having trust, contempting lovers inability to do certain things.adjusting in a non-sensable way, these are things that makes a love marriage unworthy.
At the beginning stage of your love you must tell the opposite sex about your inabilities and your aim and express your trust. Even you don't know your inabilities , it would be better to ask your lover about your inabilities as the lover would tell you in a neat formatted way about your inabilities with a solution!. This is where you'll learn and gain new experiences, learn what is freedom of thought, and even equality.
If you think there isn't any inability in you or your lover doesn't insist to tell you, then you must act with a sense of Over-Confidence that you could do anything without any flaw so you and your lover would get into an argument and therefore you'll know your inabilities from his/her arguing statements. This is simply a nice trick! Try it. Warning: Not for those-who-don't love!
The next stage after the love and after the sudden Fatal! marriage are the Questions!!. It would be better for both the boy/girl to not say "Were you like this?!?", and say "Can we live like this?!?!". Marriage is not just pleasure but brings a real lot of commitments onto you. Over all these things, some little hatreds some little irritation some ,some little dissatisfaction, it is much more likely to live together with the TRUE LOVE. If there are some unhappy things about your opposite sex or about their family members or about anything that really makes you unhappy, just let the "Cat Out Of The Bag", yes spill it out to your love and try to solve it with a lot help from your Lovable one and the most loved one that is your opposite sex or you can call as life partner.
When it comes to marriage, equality must play an important role in your life period with your soul-mate. Both have equal rights to make decisions as well as equal part in commitments and all. The stability of family happiness must be maintained even when there is an Economical Crisis!!!. The "Taking For Granted" part must not intrude in marriage life. There must be sharing too. If life is like this, all starts well and ends well too. But Love or Life is not to come planned it comes unexpected or surprising or it may occur even normal.
Marriage Ends In Divorce, How?
The true fact is : " Marriage is a social and a meeting for relatives to announce that "These Two " are getting married and start their life together from here, and thats all there is to tell about marriage whether it is Love marriage or Arranged marriage. If and when two are married on compulsion or on individual will, then the married must live with present pleasure and future expectations.
At the age when our mustache starts to grow all we would ever think about is "whether to shave it or trim it?" Like this marriage is fixed. For love, feeling is enough but for marriage patience is must. As we grow our age increases so as our ideas about our future about the society and about our life and our social and economical and financial views too. Without understanding even our own growth how, we should not hurry up in decisions or making one.Marriage is a mere agreement. It needs two to sign it and live it and hang on with it where the one and only expectation is faith. Whoever disrespects this "faith" cannot live life , a married life.
DIVORCE is a right for both married men and women. It is a declaration that states that these couple no longer stays together or lives together. Any decisions made when at hyper-angry or hyper-happiness will lead you into misery. At divorce is such a misery. Both become mere enemies when they get divorced. Only time can decide what's right and wrong.
If I Were To Date A Girl, This Would Be Her:
- So Beautiful.
- Elegant.
- Amazing Voice.
- Her Name Tells It All
- She Is "LISA HANNIGAN"
- A Wonderful Singer!
- Just 28 Years Old!
- Her Lyrics Just Blows My Heart Off!
Here Is Her Pic:
Thank you,
R.Rajkumar(with love).
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