Play it cool - Your relation is important
This relation is different
Yes, friends the relation between husband and wife is different from all other relations. This is the only relation where just two persons can possibly participate, understand and take care of each other unlike other relations where more than two persons are possible. As they, say the relation of mother or son or mother and daughter but in all such relations more than one son and daughters may exist. Therefore, the relation of husband and wife is the unique most relation. Now the question is weather you have some differences with your wife some times or your relations are always normal. Most of us would answer in yes but that is not true, all of us have a fight with each other however small or big.
The problem begins when the relations between a husband and wife become sour and they remain strained for longer time than we can afford them. Most of the husbands do not know a proper solution of this problem and keep thinking about a way out of this particular mind-blowing, head spinning. There are some simple solutions for such minor or major problems, which would not only keep you away from those strained moments but you shall also be able to enjoy full attention and love of your wife.
Try to keep tensions away
I am sure you know the reason of tension in between you and your wife because there is no one else who knows her better that yourself. The best way to keep her happy is to admit your mistake unconditionally if you are at the wrong end. I have done it on a few occasions even this was not me at most occasions who was entirely responsible for the tension in between my wife and me. There is no harm bending down a little some time because your wife is some one special for you and this is your duty to keep her happy. This is also part of the love for me. One cannot expect any one to be a perfect at every occasion so there is no harm if we came good at her expectations for a change. You know it very well that she always tries to make you happy and offers her apologies so you should also do it once for the sake of your companion's happiness.
The best way to please her is to know the reason of her displeasure or why is she not satisfied with any thing in particular. Once you know the reason of her anger, you would be in a better position to bring her back to terms. You can always do it with a lovely sentence specially designed for the purpose. I am hopeful that this should please her and she would be back to normal within no time. After all the tension, she is your wife who loves you and this all was a little misunderstanding nothing much. These relations are full of sentiments, which need some healing touches from time to time and such acts make them still sweeter.
Give it a right treatment- Play it cool
While you feel that, she is seriously annoyed and wants you to realize your mistake, grab the chance with both hands and step forward immediately- think positively and play it cool. This is your relation that is at stake and you have to keep it healthy and going. Never hesitate to accept your mistake that would help make relations stronger and balanced. You perhaps know the golden rule of a happy family that says if one of you unconditionally accepts the mistake; the chances of a broken family reduce immediately. Accepting your mistake never makes you small but help makes relations normal and long lasting. Try to make atmosphere normal with some light talk that helps bringing normalcy back. There are some golden rules to keep your wife happy and good mood.
- Never make complaints about your wife’s behavior to any one to keep dispute in between you two. Your relations would be back on track but talking about it may have a bad impact on your relations.
- Never ever, make conversation that would make you feel bad at a later stage.
- Keep you tone under control even if you are very upset.
- Never leave her alone while the relations are not that well.
- Never eat alone, that would force her to eat with you because women have a tendency to become soft on this issue sooner.
- Never try to blame her for every thing; you cannot clap with one hand.
- Never try to overplay the problem, this is better to play it down.
- Try to pacify her as soon as possible that would keep you and your family forever happy.
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