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usha manohar replied to the topic Is there a perfect age for marriage ?.
MG Singh wrote:
Personally I dont believe in a perfect age for marriage. One can marry at any age 30,40 50 or even later.
I tend to agree with that, marriage should be a personal choice not a compulsion and one should not go by the standards laid down by the society. I have a male cousin who was married at the age of 22 , an arranged marriage which broke up in 3 years time after which he was disillusioned. His wife coped better and got married again after 4 years. He went through many phases of life . Now he has found someone who he feels is the right partner for him and he is 43 years old. The entire family and his well wishers are very happy for him !
8 years ago
rambabu said thank you to usha manohar for his/her reply to the topic Is there a perfect age for marriage ?.
rambabu wrote:
Will there be any Mother who will not relish the sweet and sonorous word, "Mamma " ? Every mother floats on the waves of ecstasy when she hears the word " Mamma ".
When a Mother doesn't have the the possibilities of having children due to some reasons, definitely she goes for adoption. And she will not have an iota of hesitation to bear the difficulties involved in Motherhood. Hence, I definitely say that adopting a child is a wise decision.
Here I must say that parents should take care to adopt a Just born baby. The idea is the baby should not know that it's an adopted child.
Nowadays couple who are in perfect health too prefer to adopt children because they feel it is better to give home to a homeless child rather than bring in more children of their own...Normally adoption process takes a long time and the baby is handed over when they are a few months old or even a year old in some cases which hardly matters...And as far as masking the truth, that is the worst damage that can be done to a child especially after he or she grows into an adult and co es o know through other sources.
There are counselling classes and sessions for would be adopters and they are given advise as to how to go about making the child aware that she or he is an adopted child rather than keep it a secret which is a totally wrong attitude !
8 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic Is there a perfect age for marriage ?.
I agree with you., Counseling for the adopters will be good. As the child grows up if the child knows the fact that he was an adopted child may lead to more difficulties. Counseling will help in this regard.
8 years ago
Manoj Kumar Lamba answered the question Tharoor's support to "Swachh Bharat" campaign. Was it wrong?.
Joining a good campaign can't be said as bad. Tharoor is actually being in lots of controversies, his all moves are closely watched by the party.
8 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic Is there a perfect age for marriage ?.
rambabu wrote:
Will there be any Mother who will not relish the sweet and sonorous word, "Mamma " ? Every mother floats on the waves of ecstasy when she hears the word " Mamma ".
When a Mother doesn't have the the possibilities of having children due to some reasons, definitely she goes for adoption. And she will not have an iota of hesitation to bear the difficulties involved in Motherhood. Hence, I definitely say that adopting a child is a wise decision.
Here I must say that parents should take care to adopt a Just born baby. The idea is the baby should not know that it's an adopted child.
Nowadays couple who are in perfect health too prefer to adopt children because they feel it is better to give home to a homeless child rather than bring in more children of their own...Normally adoption process takes a long time and the baby is handed over when they are a few months old or even a year old in some cases which hardly matters...And as far as masking the truth, that is the worst damage that can be done to a child especially after he or she grows into an adult and co es o know through other sources.
There are counselling classes and sessions for would be adopters and they are given advise as to how to go about making the child aware that she or he is an adopted child rather than keep it a secret which is a totally wrong attitude !
8 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic Is there a perfect age for marriage ?.
rambabu wrote:
Will there be any Mother who will not relish the sweet and sonorous word, "Mamma " ? Every mother floats on the waves of ecstasy when she hears the word " Mamma ".
When a Mother doesn't have the the possibilities of having children due to some reasons, definitely she goes for adoption. And she will not have an iota of hesitation to bear the difficulties involved in Motherhood. Hence, I definitely say that adopting a child is a wise decision.
Here I must say that parents should take care to adopt a Just born baby. The idea is the baby should not know that it's an adopted child.
Nowadays couple who are in perfect health too prefer to adopt children because they feel it is better to give home to a homeless child rather than bring in more children of their own...Normally adoption process takes a long time and the baby is handed over when they are a few months old or even a year old in some cases which hardly matters...And as far as masking the truth, that is the worst damage that can be done to a child especially after he or she grows into an adult and co es o know through other sources.
There are counselling classes and sessions for would be adopters and they are given advise as to how to go about making the child aware that she or he is an adopted child rather than keep it a secret which is a totally wrong attitude !
8 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic The ABC of Personalities.
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani wrote:
I feel that I am something of Part A and something of Part B. I'm always busy but but don't overdo and not over strain myself.
Congratulations Sir. You are able to confirm about to what group you belong to. Knowing about self, will help in boosting your productivity.This is most essential.
8 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic Nawaz Shatif resolves to Cooperate with India.
Yes sir. Army of Pakistan is more powerful. But as the things are happening, some hope for a friendly relations are appearing. Who can say what's in store for the two countries ? Hoping for the best , and keeping fingers crossed is the only thing we can do at this juncture.
8 years ago
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani replied to the topic The ABC of Personalities.
I feel that I am something of Part A and something of Part B. I'm always busy but but don't overdo and not over strain myself.
8 years ago
rambabu said thank you to Gulshan Kumar Ajmani for his/her reply to the topic Is there a perfect age for marriage ?.
There are some stages in life- education, employment, marriage. I feel that one must first finish education and settle in career. Marriage comes thereafter. Accordingly, likely ideal age of marriage will be 25 years to 30 years.
8 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic Is there a perfect age for marriage ?.
Yes sir. Even if the couple are married between 25 to 30 years, differences are bound to be there in every family. Some times these differences contribute to the overall happiness in the family. Of course within limits. These differences should not be allowed to go very far.
8 years ago
Babu saroj said thank you to Gulshan Kumar Ajmani for his/her reply to the topic payment not received, its almost 1 month over .
You may also contact on Facebook page of Boddunan.
8 years ago
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani replied to the topic Nawaz Shatif resolves to Cooperate with India.
The problem is that army plays more dominant role in Pakistan. ISI (inter service intelligence) is more powerful and under army control. The civil politicians are not as powerful as Indian counterparts.
8 years ago
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani replied to the topic Is there a perfect age for marriage ?.
There are some stages in life- education, employment, marriage. I feel that one must first finish education and settle in career. Marriage comes thereafter. Accordingly, likely ideal age of marriage will be 25 years to 30 years.
8 years ago
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani replied to the topic payment not received, its almost 1 month over .
You may also contact on Facebook page of Boddunan.
8 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic Controlling attitude towards a partner..
A happy married life with differences lead to conflicts that wreck the family. Couples should not be judgmental about each others attitudes and aptitudes. If one loves a particular way, let the other make way. Of course, not at the cost of family welfare.
8 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic Is there a perfect age for marriage ?.
MG Singh wrote:
Personally I dont believe in a perfect age for marriage. One can marry at any age 30,40 50 or even later.
I tend to agree with that, marriage should be a personal choice not a compulsion and one should not go by the standards laid down by the society. I have a male cousin who was married at the age of 22 , an arranged marriage which broke up in 3 years time after which he was disillusioned. His wife coped better and got married again after 4 years. He went through many phases of life . Now he has found someone who he feels is the right partner for him and he is 43 years old. The entire family and his well wishers are very happy for him !
8 years ago
rambabu said thank you to usha manohar for his/her reply to the topic Is there a perfect age for marriage ?.
rambabu wrote:
Will there be any Mother who will not relish the sweet and sonorous word, "Mamma " ? Every mother floats on the waves of ecstasy when she hears the word " Mamma ".
When a Mother doesn't have the the possibilities of having children due to some reasons, definitely she goes for adoption. And she will not have an iota of hesitation to bear the difficulties involved in Motherhood. Hence, I definitely say that adopting a child is a wise decision.
Here I must say that parents should take care to adopt a Just born baby. The idea is the baby should not know that it's an adopted child.
Nowadays couple who are in perfect health too prefer to adopt children because they feel it is better to give home to a homeless child rather than bring in more children of their own...Normally adoption process takes a long time and the baby is handed over when they are a few months old or even a year old in some cases which hardly matters...And as far as masking the truth, that is the worst damage that can be done to a child especially after he or she grows into an adult and co es o know through other sources.
There are counselling classes and sessions for would be adopters and they are given advise as to how to go about making the child aware that she or he is an adopted child rather than keep it a secret which is a totally wrong attitude !
8 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic Is there a perfect age for marriage ?.
I agree with you., Counseling for the adopters will be good. As the child grows up if the child knows the fact that he was an adopted child may lead to more difficulties. Counseling will help in this regard.
8 years ago
Manoj Kumar Lamba answered the question Tharoor's support to "Swachh Bharat" campaign. Was it wrong?.
Joining a good campaign can't be said as bad. Tharoor is actually being in lots of controversies, his all moves are closely watched by the party.
8 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic Is there a perfect age for marriage ?.
rambabu wrote:
Will there be any Mother who will not relish the sweet and sonorous word, "Mamma " ? Every mother floats on the waves of ecstasy when she hears the word " Mamma ".
When a Mother doesn't have the the possibilities of having children due to some reasons, definitely she goes for adoption. And she will not have an iota of hesitation to bear the difficulties involved in Motherhood. Hence, I definitely say that adopting a child is a wise decision.
Here I must say that parents should take care to adopt a Just born baby. The idea is the baby should not know that it's an adopted child.
Nowadays couple who are in perfect health too prefer to adopt children because they feel it is better to give home to a homeless child rather than bring in more children of their own...Normally adoption process takes a long time and the baby is handed over when they are a few months old or even a year old in some cases which hardly matters...And as far as masking the truth, that is the worst damage that can be done to a child especially after he or she grows into an adult and co es o know through other sources.
There are counselling classes and sessions for would be adopters and they are given advise as to how to go about making the child aware that she or he is an adopted child rather than keep it a secret which is a totally wrong attitude !
8 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic Is there a perfect age for marriage ?.
rambabu wrote:
Will there be any Mother who will not relish the sweet and sonorous word, "Mamma " ? Every mother floats on the waves of ecstasy when she hears the word " Mamma ".
When a Mother doesn't have the the possibilities of having children due to some reasons, definitely she goes for adoption. And she will not have an iota of hesitation to bear the difficulties involved in Motherhood. Hence, I definitely say that adopting a child is a wise decision.
Here I must say that parents should take care to adopt a Just born baby. The idea is the baby should not know that it's an adopted child.
Nowadays couple who are in perfect health too prefer to adopt children because they feel it is better to give home to a homeless child rather than bring in more children of their own...Normally adoption process takes a long time and the baby is handed over when they are a few months old or even a year old in some cases which hardly matters...And as far as masking the truth, that is the worst damage that can be done to a child especially after he or she grows into an adult and co es o know through other sources.
There are counselling classes and sessions for would be adopters and they are given advise as to how to go about making the child aware that she or he is an adopted child rather than keep it a secret which is a totally wrong attitude !
8 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic The ABC of Personalities.
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani wrote:
I feel that I am something of Part A and something of Part B. I'm always busy but but don't overdo and not over strain myself.
Congratulations Sir. You are able to confirm about to what group you belong to. Knowing about self, will help in boosting your productivity.This is most essential.
8 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic Nawaz Shatif resolves to Cooperate with India.
Yes sir. Army of Pakistan is more powerful. But as the things are happening, some hope for a friendly relations are appearing. Who can say what's in store for the two countries ? Hoping for the best , and keeping fingers crossed is the only thing we can do at this juncture.
8 years ago
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani replied to the topic The ABC of Personalities.
I feel that I am something of Part A and something of Part B. I'm always busy but but don't overdo and not over strain myself.
8 years ago
rambabu said thank you to Gulshan Kumar Ajmani for his/her reply to the topic Is there a perfect age for marriage ?.
There are some stages in life- education, employment, marriage. I feel that one must first finish education and settle in career. Marriage comes thereafter. Accordingly, likely ideal age of marriage will be 25 years to 30 years.
8 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic Is there a perfect age for marriage ?.
Yes sir. Even if the couple are married between 25 to 30 years, differences are bound to be there in every family. Some times these differences contribute to the overall happiness in the family. Of course within limits. These differences should not be allowed to go very far.
8 years ago
Babu saroj said thank you to Gulshan Kumar Ajmani for his/her reply to the topic payment not received, its almost 1 month over .
You may also contact on Facebook page of Boddunan.
8 years ago
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani replied to the topic Nawaz Shatif resolves to Cooperate with India.
The problem is that army plays more dominant role in Pakistan. ISI (inter service intelligence) is more powerful and under army control. The civil politicians are not as powerful as Indian counterparts.
8 years ago
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani replied to the topic Is there a perfect age for marriage ?.
There are some stages in life- education, employment, marriage. I feel that one must first finish education and settle in career. Marriage comes thereafter. Accordingly, likely ideal age of marriage will be 25 years to 30 years.
8 years ago
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani replied to the topic payment not received, its almost 1 month over .
You may also contact on Facebook page of Boddunan.
8 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic Controlling attitude towards a partner..
A happy married life with differences lead to conflicts that wreck the family. Couples should not be judgmental about each others attitudes and aptitudes. If one loves a particular way, let the other make way. Of course, not at the cost of family welfare.
8 years ago