Do you think this is true ? that most of the time we don't listen enough or listen just enough to respond and give out our own view point ...


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Pay no mind to those who talk behind your back, it simply means that you are two steps ahead !!!

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Definitely Listening is an Art. It not only creates an empathy, it makes the other member feel that he's being regarded and recognized. It in its turn opens the flood gates to an amicable atmosphere all around and paves the path for successful conversation. It's equally important in the Corporate world;s negotiations.
Good listening is essence of meaningful conversation. Often there is confusion that arises from improper communication.

G. K. Ajmani Tax consultant
http://gkajmani-mystraythoughts.blogspot.com/

Good listening is essence of meaningful conversation. Often there is confusion that arises from improper communication.


A conversation becomes a fiasco if the members involved fail to understand the other person's point of view.
Thank you said by: Gulshan Kumar Ajmani
In many cases people listen to only what they want to listen to and draw their own conclusions, this is also dangerous since the person may mean something else altogether....So we need to listen carefully taking everything into consideration ! Taking a word or sentence out of context and distorting it , like it happens with the media and magazines can lead to uncalled for complications..

Pay no mind to those who talk behind your back, it simply means that you are two steps ahead !!!

Thank you said by: Gulshan Kumar Ajmani
In many cases people listen to only what they want to listen to and draw their own conclusions, this is also dangerous since the person may mean something else altogether....So we need to listen carefully taking everything into consideration ! Taking a word or sentence out of context and distorting it , like it happens with the media and magazines can lead to uncalled for complications..


Yes, this trend of not hearing each other often can be seen in media discussions especially of political parties. All of them talking . None listens the other.
In many cases people listen to only what they want to listen to and draw their own conclusions, this is also dangerous since the person may mean something else altogether....So we need to listen carefully taking everything into consideration ! Taking a word or sentence out of context and distorting it , like it happens with the media and magazines can lead to uncalled for complications..


sometimes, this is deliberate. Sometimes, the opponents will pick a few words or clauses here and there and give a distorted view of what is actually said or written. Half truths are more dangerous than plain lies.

G. K. Ajmani Tax consultant
http://gkajmani-mystraythoughts.blogspot.com/

In many cases people listen to only what they want to listen to and draw their own conclusions, this is also dangerous since the person may mean something else altogether....So we need to listen carefully taking everything into consideration ! Taking a word or sentence out of context and distorting it , like it happens with the media and magazines can lead to uncalled for complications..


sometimes, this is deliberate. Sometimes, the opponents will pick a few words or clauses here and there and give a distorted view of what is actually said or written. Half truths are more dangerous than plain lies.


Yes, people deliberately pretend as if they didn't listen, because truth causes pain and create embarrassment .
Thank you said by: Gulshan Kumar Ajmani
It is precisely because people do not listen to others that many problems are created, it is also easy for the unscruplous to get away with anything quoting that they were misquoted like most of our politicians do.However, for leser mortals like us there is no getting away from the fact that there is no second chance ...we have to make the best of the given chance !

Pay no mind to those who talk behind your back, it simply means that you are two steps ahead !!!

Listening is often mistaken as a sign of defeat. That's why people often shout at each other as if it's a shouting competition.
When there is more shouting and less listening, it clearly says that none of them has anything to say.
Normally we listen and speak well. But these days, in TV shows, we can listen nobody as all partipants speak simultaneously.

G. K. Ajmani Tax consultant
http://gkajmani-mystraythoughts.blogspot.com/

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