Negativity is the result of fear.Fear of failure, Fear of rejection. Only confidence in a person can thwart the negativity.

Thats very true ! We start our life with negativity, No is the irst word that registers in a childs mind since he/she is perpetually being cautioned against something or the other, so it is but natural that they grwo with fear and insecurity...

For the same reason, he becomes a cynic. Doubts his own shadow. He looks at Everyone as if they are scheming against him.

Yes thats true ! There is no need to be a daredevil with regard to evrything but there should be a balance in everythig we do in life and welcome any changes instead of remaining stuck in a grove all the time...I have an uncle who has never gone outside Mangalore district because he cannot live without boiled rice konji in the morning and boiled rice for lunch, that too the same muddy reddish brown variety that is grown here ! I find that too much...But he doesn't seem to regret not having gone anywhere ! :huh:

I agree but some times old values are still applicable and a change may spoil the fun. But change according to situation is alright.

Change is the only constant. Wisdom lies in adapting to the change. Those who refuse to change will be left behind.

Yes, from childhood most of our parents make us know that we may not succeed. But atleast we have to program our children in a very positive manner, I mean how success comes, what we have to do for that, how positive we should think, like that

This is true that sometimes we don't go for the things as we have a fear that we won't be able to accomplish that task but we should understand that we cannot judge without trying that task. this is just a fear that we should always try to overcome in our life to get success in what we do. :)

This is true that sometimes we don't go for the things as we have a fear that we won't be able to accomplish that task but we should understand that we cannot judge without trying that task. this is just a fear that we should always try to overcome in our life to get success in what we do. :)

Success may not always come but what is important is we tried and learnt something from that very effort....Thats why it is important to teach children while young to accept things as they are , so that they can strive to better themselves ..

This is true that sometimes we don't go for the things as we have a fear that we won't be able to accomplish that task but we should understand that we cannot judge without trying that task. this is just a fear that we should always try to overcome in our life to get success in what we do. :)

Success may not always come but what is important is we tried and learnt something from that very effort....Thats why it is important to teach children while young to accept things as they are , so that they can strive to better themselves ..