yeah if we are good then we can definitely change others also. so in matter to bring social changes to the society we should first change ourselves 

Gulshan ji, if there are breaths which are vacant and no one are going to come anymore and then tt aloting us for lil money means its not corruption. as i feel. There are many big issues which you can explain regarding corruption. this is a very silly thing

sarala wrote:

Gulshan ji, if there are breaths which are vacant and no one are going to come anymore and then tt aloting us for lil money means its not corruption. as i feel. There are many big issues which you can explain regarding corruption. this is a very silly thing

It is not possible here to explain every situation. But as a principle, we can avoid corruption by carefully planning our schedules in advance and when necessary to suffer some inconvenience instead of indulging or promoting corruption. Practically, there may be strong reasons to deviate from strict principles.  Every one knows how to act in a given situation.  For example, there may be situation when you have to travel suddenly and need to get reservation even by wrong means. But such situation is rare. You can anticipate everything except death and disease.  

Shampa Sadhya wrote:

Even parents use unfair means for enrolling their child in Montessori only to get a seat in a reputed school. This is how we instil immoral values in our children.

You are right but parents are not only responsible for it, our system is also responsible. Good schools are not enough here. What parents do? 

Wherever good facilities are in short supply the excess demand creates corrupt situations. This is a worldwide phenomena.

anil wrote:

Shampa Sadhya wrote:

Even parents use unfair means for enrolling their child in Montessori only to get a seat in a reputed school. This is how we instil immoral values in our children.

You are right but parents are not only responsible for it, our system is also responsible. Good schools are not enough here. What parents do?

Yes, I agree that parents have their own reasons but by doing so we are encouraging corruption and not trying to curb it. Thus, we have no right to accuse others for corruption when we too practice it whenever time demands ill practice.  

 

Shampa Sadhya wrote:

anil wrote:

Shampa Sadhya wrote:

Even parents use unfair means for enrolling their child in Montessori only to get a seat in a reputed school. This is how we instil immoral values in our children.

You are right but parents are not only responsible for it, our system is also responsible. Good schools are not enough here. What parents do?

Yes, I agree that parents have their own reasons but by doing so we are encouraging corruption and not trying to curb it. Thus, we have no right to accuse others for corruption when we too practice it whenever time demands ill practice.

Yes you are right,we have not right to blame others, but some time we are helpless. Tell honsetly will compromise for principal, not to give bribe, with future of your children?  

 

 

anil wrote:

Shampa Sadhya wrote:

anil wrote:

Shampa Sadhya wrote:

Even parents use unfair means for enrolling their child in Montessori only to get a seat in a reputed school. This is how we instil immoral values in our children.

You are right but parents are not only responsible for it, our system is also responsible. Good schools are not enough here. What parents do?

Yes, I agree that parents have their own reasons but by doing so we are encouraging corruption and not trying to curb it. Thus, we have no right to accuse others for corruption when we too practice it whenever time demands ill practice.

Yes you are right,we have not right to blame others, but some time we are helpless. Tell honsetly will compromise for principal, not to give bribe, with future of your children?  

" Be the change you want to see in the world." - mahatma Gandhi. It is true in any aspect of life. Unless people join hands with the Government, nothing will come out.

 

 

 

In many areas if one does not bribe one will be put to tremendous loss. No one bothers about an honest person. Preaching is easy after we retire.