Most of us get tressed out and take out our own shortcomings and frustrations on others and become more unhappy and this can go on and on becoming a vicious cycle..Here is a link that tells us about 10 tricks that help us overcome these tendencies , and not develop a negative attitude in life ... I found the article very practical and inspiring ! :)

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/health-fitness/fitness/10-tricks-to-become-a-loving-positive-person/articleshow/15015785.cms?utm_source=facebook.com&utm_medium=referral

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The suggestions are fine. Be ambitious and take easy- these are most apt.

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Thank you said by: usha manohar
Most of the tricks mentioned are doable provided we also get the pleasure of hanging around with a positive bunch of people even one or two positive people can change the way we think (negative). Similarly one negative person can shatter all our positivity.

“A mistake is a crash-course in learning” – Billy Anderson

Thank you said by: usha manohar, mohan manohar
Most of us get tressed out and take out our own shortcomings and frustrations on others and become more unhappy and this can go on and on becoming a vicious cycle..Here is a link that tells us about 10 tricks that help us overcome these tendencies , and not develop a negative attitude in life ... I found the article very practical and inspiring ! :)

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/health-fitness/fitness/10-tricks-to-become-a-loving-positive-person/articleshow/15015785.cms?utm_source=facebook.com&utm_medium=referral


Be realistic and don't try to become a saint is one aspect of the article, i liked immensely. This trait really paves way to positivity.
Thank you said by: usha manohar
Any reference to Positivity always makes me remember one of my uncles who passed away a couple of years ago, who was immensely liked by all of us nieces and nephews but was always being criticised and looked down by the elders in the family.This was because he took everything lightly and never cared about making money.He just managed with a field , coconut garden that was part of his share and made everyone welcome and happy when they visited him ! What more does a person require ? Today we remember him with smile, affection and regret losing him at a relatively young age of 70+ and I am sure that is the best memory a person can leave nehind, being remembered fondly by all who knew him!

Pay no mind to those who talk behind your back, it simply means that you are two steps ahead !!!

Even if we practice a little of what we preach we can be more positive persons. It generally is difficult and very few persons do it and we remember them
Thank you said by: usha manohar
Achievers are few in number. Because achieving what you want is not a cakewalk. It's not everybody's cup of tea.. Mahatma Gandhis cannot be seen in every street corner.
I guess it is the simple everyday things that are far more important than any great achievement. It also gives you inner peace and contentment when you know that you have done your best which n turn makes you develop a positive attitude towards life !

Pay no mind to those who talk behind your back, it simply means that you are two steps ahead !!!

I guess it is the simple everyday things that are far more important than any great achievement. It also gives you inner peace and contentment when you know that you have done your best which n turn makes you develop a positive attitude towards life !


True. Simple things which we generally ignore make a big difference if cultivated. We meet people. Smile at each other. But we never bother to know their name. Addressing by name and just saying "Hi" are two different things I address my maid servant everyday by her name Swapna.It may not result in any materialistic benefit. But it gives a sense of satisfaction. This makes a whale of a difference.
Thank you said by: usha manohar
Any reference to Positivity always makes me remember one of my uncles who passed away a couple of years ago, who was immensely liked by all of us nieces and nephews but was always being criticised and looked down by the elders in the family.This was because he took everything lightly and never cared about making money.He just managed with a field , coconut garden that was part of his share and made everyone welcome and happy when they visited him ! What more does a person require ? Today we remember him with smile, affection and regret losing him at a relatively young age of 70+ and I am sure that is the best memory a person can leave nehind, being remembered fondly by all who knew him!


If a person can bring a smile to your face long after he is no more, he truly lived a good and happy life. It is the simple things that matter and are the cause of happiness but we seem to have forgotten all that and made our lives so much complicated.

"I am free of all prejudice. I hate everyone equally."
- W. C. Fields :)

Thank you said by: usha manohar
Most families nowadays want to eat out during weekends but I feel that a well cooked meal even if it is simple , prepared at home with care and served with love cannot match any of the six course meals served in a posh hotel ! But commercialisation has made us forget the simple pleasures of life.

Pay no mind to those who talk behind your back, it simply means that you are two steps ahead !!!

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