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anil replied to the topic where will dark forces of irrationality lead to ? .
Not only is anganvadi, children are not safe any where. In this case child was kidnapped for religious eitual. We can read in newspaper tht every day child kidnapped for sexual harshment.Devil of this type is present every where. Parents can't keep their children in houses all time. It is not good for development of children. Goo bless child.
9 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic Intolerance kills .
anil wrote:
vijay wrote:
The biggest enemies of Hinduism are inside it and not outside it. The caste system is corrosive and is weakening the Hinduism from within. It was felt that education would broaden the outlook of the so called upper castes and help in assimilating the so called lower castes, but unfortunately it has not happened. The dalits have now only one choice to either fight it out within Hinduism or get out and form a separate group which may mean embracing another religion. The upper castes will still not change. Accidents of birth are used for dominating others.
it is right that enemies of Hinduism are inside. But peoples of upper cast is not responsible for it. Our politicians are behind it. They are dividing society for votes. Upper castes is changing but policy of Appeasement is reason that some people of upper cast are doing all these evil. But don't blame to all. What is happen in UP is an evil.
All are having a share in this sinister act. It's not the question of answering who is responsible or not. It's the question of finding an answer for the atrocities perpetrated on Dalits.
9 years ago
anil replied to the topic Intolerance kills .
vijay wrote:
The biggest enemies of Hinduism are inside it and not outside it. The caste system is corrosive and is weakening the Hinduism from within. It was felt that education would broaden the outlook of the so called upper castes and help in assimilating the so called lower castes, but unfortunately it has not happened. The dalits have now only one choice to either fight it out within Hinduism or get out and form a separate group which may mean embracing another religion. The upper castes will still not change. Accidents of birth are used for dominating others.
it is right that enemies of Hinduism are inside. But peoples of upper cast is not responsible for it. Our politicians are behind it. They are dividing society for votes. Upper castes is changing but policy of Appeasement is reason that some people of upper cast are doing all these evil. But don't blame to all. What is happen in UP is an evil.
9 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic Lynching on rumor .
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani wrote:
vijay wrote:
But if the law enforcing agencies and their patrons themselves are partially communal then who will be the saviour?
This is valid point. I just read a post on Facebook that gave link clearly showing that two miscreants are sons of local BJP leaders. No doubt BJPand other saffron forcesled by RSS are the real culprits but thestate government controlled by Samajvadi Party needs be more cautious and alert.
Agreed. everybody is pointing out the culprits, But nobody is talking about a solution. And we know that there is no solution. And the conditions continue to remain as it is.
9 years ago
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani created new topic where will dark forces of irrationality lead to ? .
Childrenare not safe in anganvadi as well. A small child was kidnapped from anganwadi and sacridixed for religious eitual.
https://in.news.yahoo.com/four-year-old-picked-up-from-anganwadi--beheaded-in-an-alleged-human-sacrifice-ritual-055159908.html
9 years ago
anil replied to the topic What a girl should do before marriage.
rambabu wrote:
Most of the parents fee that a girl is a burden to them. Which is why they hurry up to get their marriage performed at the earliest. But today's girls think One ideally completes her Master’s degree by 24 years of age. In today’s world, 24 years is not too late to get married.
I am not agree with you Rambabu. Girls are never burden of the parents. Parents love and like daughter like sun. But at present safety and security of daughter is problem. Only father of daughter can understand it. Beside parents wants that daughter should capable of facing any harshment in life. They prefer to educate them well. I have two daughters. One is doing internship after completing LL.B. Another is doing B.Ed.
9 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic What Did Mahatma Gandhi Like to Eat?.
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani wrote:
usha manohar wrote:
This just came to my mind , apparently Sarojini Naidu once joked saying that it cost the nation a fortune to keep Gandhiji in poverty ! Gandhiji was no doubt a simple man with simple habits but now people seem to want to make a saint out of him, who seems like a dull uninteresting person whereas I am sure there are many more interesting facets to his life rather than his diet and dress !
I believe that simplicity just meas that you remain usual self and do not do anything that invites othes' intention. Glamourous life style attracts peoples' intention and thus this is not simple. But if you een make a show of simplicity, you are not simple. To elicidate, Kejriwal andothers attempted to show their simplicty by travelling in metro rail and other gimmicks. This is not simplicity. simplicity means that you live in a manner others placed in your position would do. By this yardstick, Gandhi was not so simple. He ate simple food including goat milk. It is widely believed that the goat ate dry fruits so that the milk is very rich.
Simplicity as a show is not simplicity. Those who practice simplicity as a way of life only for themselves , Not with an intention whether somebody is observing are are real practitioners of Simplicity.
9 years ago
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani replied to the topic Lynching on rumor .
vijay wrote:
But if the law enforcing agencies and their patrons themselves are partially communal then who will be the saviour?
This is valid point. I just read a post on Facebook that gave link clearly showing that two miscreants are sons of local BJP leaders. No doubt BJPand other saffron forcesled by RSS are the real culprits but thestate government controlled by Samajvadi Party needs be more cautious and alert.
9 years ago
Shampa Sadhya replied to the topic What a girl should do before marriage.
Education is a must and obviously with it the girls will have the guts to take up a decision regarding every ifs and buts of life. Financial independence is also necessary but I feel sometimes it can take a back seat while fixing marriage but no compromises regarding education. This will help the most when a girl wants to be self dependent. Well, I have a bit different opinion regarding the knowledge of legal rights. It is important but don't you all think that many women are misusing this legal right by lodging fake domestic violence cases. Actually, in our country this legal right is biased towards women which is being violated a lot and many families are getting destroyed because of false cases.Thus, I feel the legal rights after marriage should be balanced and transparent for both the sides and must not have an option to be misused which should be clearly defined to both the parties before the marriage itself.
9 years ago
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani replied to the topic What Did Mahatma Gandhi Like to Eat?.
usha manohar wrote:
This just came to my mind , apparently Sarojini Naidu once joked saying that it cost the nation a fortune to keep Gandhiji in poverty ! Gandhiji was no doubt a simple man with simple habits but now people seem to want to make a saint out of him, who seems like a dull uninteresting person whereas I am sure there are many more interesting facets to his life rather than his diet and dress !
I believe that simplicity just meas that you remain usual self and do not do anything that invites othes' intention. Glamourous life style attracts peoples' intention and thus this is not simple. But if you een make a show of simplicity, you are not simple. To elicidate, Kejriwal andothers attempted to show their simplicty by travelling in metro rail and other gimmicks. This is not simplicity. simplicity means that you live in a manner others placed in your position would do. By this yardstick, Gandhi was not so simple. He ate simple food including goat milk. It is widely believed that the goat ate dry fruits so that the milk is very rich.
9 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic What Did Mahatma Gandhi Like to Eat?.
anil wrote:
rambabu wrote:
Suitability is something connected with personal likes and choices. Since The life style and food Mahatma Gandhi ate suited him he has preferred simple food. Mahatma Gandhi stresses not only on simplicity but also in setting an example himself by following his principles. Hence the lesson is, though not like Mahatma Gandhi one can stick to simplicity as much as possible within his means.
Mahatma Gandhi was fen of natural therapy. Diet therapy is essential part of natural therapy. It may be reason he like simple food and raw food. One should be eat one half their meal as raw food.
All Mahatma Gandhi's beliefs and practices are as simple as Mahatma. They are not only simple but inexpensive too/
9 years ago
anil replied to the topic What Did Mahatma Gandhi Like to Eat?.
rambabu wrote:
Suitability is something connected with personal likes and choices. Since The life style and food Mahatma Gandhi ate suited him he has preferred simple food. Mahatma Gandhi stresses not only on simplicity but also in setting an example himself by following his principles. Hence the lesson is, though not like Mahatma Gandhi one can stick to simplicity as much as possible within his means.
Mahatma Gandhi was fen of natural therapy. Diet therapy is essential part of natural therapy. It may be reason he like simple food and raw food. One should be eat one half their meal as raw food.
9 years ago
vijay replied to the topic What Did Mahatma Gandhi Like to Eat?.
If I recall correctly Sarojini Naidu had said that Gandhiji travels in second or third class in rail but it costs government a fortune to take his care. But it is hte spirit he was showing with his fellow citizens that is important.
9 years ago
Shampa Sadhya said thank you to suni51 for his/her reply to the topic How do you deal with an insult?.
I think it's time to lock this thread. Thanks everyone.
9 years ago
suni51 replied to the topic How do you deal with an insult?.
I think it's time to lock this thread. Thanks everyone.
9 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic How do you deal with an insult?.
You said " sometimes I feel like somehow I must contact them and clear the doubt and then finally. " this is the aspect wrecking you. I think the friend in question I'm sure, he's aware of your weakness. In my view he's certainly waiting for an opportune time. Then why don't you do the same and test his patience ? All in all i agree with all those members who suggested you to wait. There is no option left for you.
9 years ago
Shampa Sadhya replied to the topic How do you deal with an insult?.
@usha manohar, @chinmoymukherjee @vijay @sarala Read your views and you know at one point of time my mind says I must ignore, sometimes I feel like somehow I must contact them and clear the doubt and then finally I feel that I have no doubt, my intention was never wrong and I tried my best to contact them then why I should go through a phase of hurt. I know I did nothing wrong so let it be just as it is. The onus is upon them because no relationship can continue single handedly. When they don't want to maintain friendship then be it like that. I can forgive and move on because I can accept that they are no more interested in continuing the relationship but I can never forget because once I forget then I will mix with them once again if by chance I get to contact them and leave a door open to hurt me once more.
By the way, maybe because of server error this thread has got many duplicate replies, so, what am I to do? Can I edit the duplicate comments? Kindly confirm.
9 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic What Did Mahatma Gandhi Like to Eat?.
True. I read about Sarojini Naidu's comment. When Gandhiji was frequently running to Bhangi colonies, this comment was made. Of course later it was known that these Bhangi colonies were artificially created.
9 years ago
anil replied to the topic where will dark forces of irrationality lead to ? .
Not only is anganvadi, children are not safe any where. In this case child was kidnapped for religious eitual. We can read in newspaper tht every day child kidnapped for sexual harshment.Devil of this type is present every where. Parents can't keep their children in houses all time. It is not good for development of children. Goo bless child.
9 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic Intolerance kills .
anil wrote:
vijay wrote:
The biggest enemies of Hinduism are inside it and not outside it. The caste system is corrosive and is weakening the Hinduism from within. It was felt that education would broaden the outlook of the so called upper castes and help in assimilating the so called lower castes, but unfortunately it has not happened. The dalits have now only one choice to either fight it out within Hinduism or get out and form a separate group which may mean embracing another religion. The upper castes will still not change. Accidents of birth are used for dominating others.
it is right that enemies of Hinduism are inside. But peoples of upper cast is not responsible for it. Our politicians are behind it. They are dividing society for votes. Upper castes is changing but policy of Appeasement is reason that some people of upper cast are doing all these evil. But don't blame to all. What is happen in UP is an evil.
All are having a share in this sinister act. It's not the question of answering who is responsible or not. It's the question of finding an answer for the atrocities perpetrated on Dalits.
9 years ago
anil replied to the topic Intolerance kills .
vijay wrote:
The biggest enemies of Hinduism are inside it and not outside it. The caste system is corrosive and is weakening the Hinduism from within. It was felt that education would broaden the outlook of the so called upper castes and help in assimilating the so called lower castes, but unfortunately it has not happened. The dalits have now only one choice to either fight it out within Hinduism or get out and form a separate group which may mean embracing another religion. The upper castes will still not change. Accidents of birth are used for dominating others.
it is right that enemies of Hinduism are inside. But peoples of upper cast is not responsible for it. Our politicians are behind it. They are dividing society for votes. Upper castes is changing but policy of Appeasement is reason that some people of upper cast are doing all these evil. But don't blame to all. What is happen in UP is an evil.
9 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic Lynching on rumor .
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani wrote:
vijay wrote:
But if the law enforcing agencies and their patrons themselves are partially communal then who will be the saviour?
This is valid point. I just read a post on Facebook that gave link clearly showing that two miscreants are sons of local BJP leaders. No doubt BJPand other saffron forcesled by RSS are the real culprits but thestate government controlled by Samajvadi Party needs be more cautious and alert.
Agreed. everybody is pointing out the culprits, But nobody is talking about a solution. And we know that there is no solution. And the conditions continue to remain as it is.
9 years ago
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani created new topic where will dark forces of irrationality lead to ? .
Childrenare not safe in anganvadi as well. A small child was kidnapped from anganwadi and sacridixed for religious eitual.
https://in.news.yahoo.com/four-year-old-picked-up-from-anganwadi--beheaded-in-an-alleged-human-sacrifice-ritual-055159908.html
9 years ago
anil replied to the topic What a girl should do before marriage.
rambabu wrote:
Most of the parents fee that a girl is a burden to them. Which is why they hurry up to get their marriage performed at the earliest. But today's girls think One ideally completes her Master’s degree by 24 years of age. In today’s world, 24 years is not too late to get married.
I am not agree with you Rambabu. Girls are never burden of the parents. Parents love and like daughter like sun. But at present safety and security of daughter is problem. Only father of daughter can understand it. Beside parents wants that daughter should capable of facing any harshment in life. They prefer to educate them well. I have two daughters. One is doing internship after completing LL.B. Another is doing B.Ed.
9 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic What Did Mahatma Gandhi Like to Eat?.
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani wrote:
usha manohar wrote:
This just came to my mind , apparently Sarojini Naidu once joked saying that it cost the nation a fortune to keep Gandhiji in poverty ! Gandhiji was no doubt a simple man with simple habits but now people seem to want to make a saint out of him, who seems like a dull uninteresting person whereas I am sure there are many more interesting facets to his life rather than his diet and dress !
I believe that simplicity just meas that you remain usual self and do not do anything that invites othes' intention. Glamourous life style attracts peoples' intention and thus this is not simple. But if you een make a show of simplicity, you are not simple. To elicidate, Kejriwal andothers attempted to show their simplicty by travelling in metro rail and other gimmicks. This is not simplicity. simplicity means that you live in a manner others placed in your position would do. By this yardstick, Gandhi was not so simple. He ate simple food including goat milk. It is widely believed that the goat ate dry fruits so that the milk is very rich.
Simplicity as a show is not simplicity. Those who practice simplicity as a way of life only for themselves , Not with an intention whether somebody is observing are are real practitioners of Simplicity.
9 years ago
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani replied to the topic Lynching on rumor .
vijay wrote:
But if the law enforcing agencies and their patrons themselves are partially communal then who will be the saviour?
This is valid point. I just read a post on Facebook that gave link clearly showing that two miscreants are sons of local BJP leaders. No doubt BJPand other saffron forcesled by RSS are the real culprits but thestate government controlled by Samajvadi Party needs be more cautious and alert.
9 years ago
Shampa Sadhya replied to the topic What a girl should do before marriage.
Education is a must and obviously with it the girls will have the guts to take up a decision regarding every ifs and buts of life. Financial independence is also necessary but I feel sometimes it can take a back seat while fixing marriage but no compromises regarding education. This will help the most when a girl wants to be self dependent. Well, I have a bit different opinion regarding the knowledge of legal rights. It is important but don't you all think that many women are misusing this legal right by lodging fake domestic violence cases. Actually, in our country this legal right is biased towards women which is being violated a lot and many families are getting destroyed because of false cases.Thus, I feel the legal rights after marriage should be balanced and transparent for both the sides and must not have an option to be misused which should be clearly defined to both the parties before the marriage itself.
9 years ago
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani replied to the topic What Did Mahatma Gandhi Like to Eat?.
usha manohar wrote:
This just came to my mind , apparently Sarojini Naidu once joked saying that it cost the nation a fortune to keep Gandhiji in poverty ! Gandhiji was no doubt a simple man with simple habits but now people seem to want to make a saint out of him, who seems like a dull uninteresting person whereas I am sure there are many more interesting facets to his life rather than his diet and dress !
I believe that simplicity just meas that you remain usual self and do not do anything that invites othes' intention. Glamourous life style attracts peoples' intention and thus this is not simple. But if you een make a show of simplicity, you are not simple. To elicidate, Kejriwal andothers attempted to show their simplicty by travelling in metro rail and other gimmicks. This is not simplicity. simplicity means that you live in a manner others placed in your position would do. By this yardstick, Gandhi was not so simple. He ate simple food including goat milk. It is widely believed that the goat ate dry fruits so that the milk is very rich.
9 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic What Did Mahatma Gandhi Like to Eat?.
anil wrote:
rambabu wrote:
Suitability is something connected with personal likes and choices. Since The life style and food Mahatma Gandhi ate suited him he has preferred simple food. Mahatma Gandhi stresses not only on simplicity but also in setting an example himself by following his principles. Hence the lesson is, though not like Mahatma Gandhi one can stick to simplicity as much as possible within his means.
Mahatma Gandhi was fen of natural therapy. Diet therapy is essential part of natural therapy. It may be reason he like simple food and raw food. One should be eat one half their meal as raw food.
All Mahatma Gandhi's beliefs and practices are as simple as Mahatma. They are not only simple but inexpensive too/
9 years ago
anil replied to the topic What Did Mahatma Gandhi Like to Eat?.
rambabu wrote:
Suitability is something connected with personal likes and choices. Since The life style and food Mahatma Gandhi ate suited him he has preferred simple food. Mahatma Gandhi stresses not only on simplicity but also in setting an example himself by following his principles. Hence the lesson is, though not like Mahatma Gandhi one can stick to simplicity as much as possible within his means.
Mahatma Gandhi was fen of natural therapy. Diet therapy is essential part of natural therapy. It may be reason he like simple food and raw food. One should be eat one half their meal as raw food.
9 years ago
vijay replied to the topic What Did Mahatma Gandhi Like to Eat?.
If I recall correctly Sarojini Naidu had said that Gandhiji travels in second or third class in rail but it costs government a fortune to take his care. But it is hte spirit he was showing with his fellow citizens that is important.
9 years ago
Shampa Sadhya said thank you to suni51 for his/her reply to the topic How do you deal with an insult?.
I think it's time to lock this thread. Thanks everyone.
9 years ago
suni51 replied to the topic How do you deal with an insult?.
I think it's time to lock this thread. Thanks everyone.
9 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic How do you deal with an insult?.
You said " sometimes I feel like somehow I must contact them and clear the doubt and then finally. " this is the aspect wrecking you. I think the friend in question I'm sure, he's aware of your weakness. In my view he's certainly waiting for an opportune time. Then why don't you do the same and test his patience ? All in all i agree with all those members who suggested you to wait. There is no option left for you.
9 years ago
Shampa Sadhya replied to the topic How do you deal with an insult?.
@usha manohar, @chinmoymukherjee @vijay @sarala Read your views and you know at one point of time my mind says I must ignore, sometimes I feel like somehow I must contact them and clear the doubt and then finally I feel that I have no doubt, my intention was never wrong and I tried my best to contact them then why I should go through a phase of hurt. I know I did nothing wrong so let it be just as it is. The onus is upon them because no relationship can continue single handedly. When they don't want to maintain friendship then be it like that. I can forgive and move on because I can accept that they are no more interested in continuing the relationship but I can never forget because once I forget then I will mix with them once again if by chance I get to contact them and leave a door open to hurt me once more.
By the way, maybe because of server error this thread has got many duplicate replies, so, what am I to do? Can I edit the duplicate comments? Kindly confirm.
9 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic What Did Mahatma Gandhi Like to Eat?.
True. I read about Sarojini Naidu's comment. When Gandhiji was frequently running to Bhangi colonies, this comment was made. Of course later it was known that these Bhangi colonies were artificially created.
9 years ago