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9 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic You can hold someone’s progress but can’t stop for forever..
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani wrote:
This is competitive world. It is natural that competitors would not like you to progress. You go ahead in spite of obstructions. I may narrate a story here. Once a soldier suddenly laughed in the royal court. The king asked the soldier what made him laugh. The soldier refused to reply. The king ordered him to leave his kingdom. The soldier joined army of the neighboring state. The soldier got promoted as army chief within a year because of his merit. One day the king asked that soldier to make war with the adjoining state from where the soldier had been banished. Soon that soldier, now general of the neighboring state, waged a war against his former king. He won and the king was arrested. The king of the neighboring state was happy and he appointed him as his representative for ruling the state. The General (ex soldier of defeated king) said- sir, That day I had just day dreamed exactly what you are seeing today. If I had told that day that my dream is to become ruler of this state, you would have executed me.
This story just tells that there will always be obstructions on your path. Just work silently on your ambitions and you will succeed.
Well said with an apt example. Though it is a story, it has said about the truth . I agree with you it's but natural there will be impediments and hurdles in the path of one's existence. Wisdom lies in facing those adversities without running away from them
9 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic You can hold someone’s progress but can’t stop for forever..
To a certain extent most people like to be surrounded by flatterers even at work place this is true and this may get them some benefits and some minor perks , this may be in government offices but I doubt if it can progress much in private concerns. On the whole unless a person has capacity, I doubt if anyone would promote him/her based only on flattery . In today's world , work culture has reached quite a new kind of efficiency and unless you have a very capable staff you wil be left behind !
9 years ago
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani replied to the topic You can hold someone’s progress but can’t stop for forever..
This is competitive world. It is natural that competitors would not like you to progress. You go ahead in spite of obstructions. I may narrate a story here. Once a soldier suddenly laughed in the royal court. The king asked the soldier what made him laugh. The soldier refused to reply. The king ordered him to leave his kingdom. The soldier joined army of the neighboring state. The soldier got promoted as army chief within a year because of his merit. One day the king asked that soldier to make war with the adjoining state from where the soldier had been banished. Soon that soldier, now general of the neighboring state, waged a war against his former king. He won and the king was arrested. The king of the neighboring state was happy and he appointed him as his representative for ruling the state. The General (ex soldier of defeated king) said- sir, That day I had just day dreamed exactly what you are seeing today. If I had told that day that my dream is to become ruler of this state, you would have executed me.
This story just tells that there will always be obstructions on your path. Just work silently on your ambitions and you will succeed.
9 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic In your opinion what is an ideal discussion ?.
rambabu wrote:
All other other things you said are mostly being followed. The main problem is with those members who drag on, saying the same thing again and again and insist on making others contribute to their opinions. These members are mere point hunters. This type has to be taken care of by the moderators.
When someone drags on , others need not contribute ....As far as point hunting goes it is clear going by the weekly leader boards ..
Unless each member consciously curbs the instinct to post for the sake of doing so we will find discussions becoming boring and repetitive. Many discussions have more than 50% of the posts made by one member only and this demotivates others ! So, it depends on individual members to maintain a certain amount of discipline ..
9 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic Do some parts of Pakistan interested in joining India.
Yes sir it's the people ln PoK wanted to join the Indian territory. The chairman of the agitation confirmed this.
9 years ago
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani replied to the topic Do some parts of Pakistan interested in joining India.
India claims the entire Kashmir region including POK as Indian territory. It is a possibility that residents of POK may not be comfortable with their present conditions and would be happier in India.
9 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic Nightmares and how they affect you..
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani wrote:
I had nightmares during my childhood. I often saw dead body processions in sleep. For this reason only, my parents changed the house. Now I often see myself in awkward position in dream viz. without any clothing among guests. I also dream that I am falling from some high places or from stairs. But now I am not so scared. all is well.
Yes sir. these are all common night mares like being chased by a snake, missing the train and falling from a high mountain. These fears which we think in the conscious condition. And these fears go in to our subconscious. They surface up some day or other.
Good to know now you do not have such night mares.
9 years ago
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani replied to the topic Nightmares and how they affect you..
I had nightmares during my childhood. I often saw dead body processions in sleep. For this reason only, my parents changed the house. Now I often see myself in awkward position in dream viz. without any clothing among guests. I also dream that I am falling from some high places or from stairs. But now I am not so scared. all is well.
9 years ago
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani replied to the topic In your opinion what is an ideal discussion ?.
An ideal discussion means free and frank expression of views, responding to others' views, flexibility and restricting to scope of the point at issue. Flexibility is significant. If you are so rigid that yo cannot change your view in any circumstances, any discussion will be futile.
9 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic In your opinion what is an ideal discussion ?.
All other other things you said are mostly being followed. The main problem is with those members who drag on, saying the same thing again and again and insist on making others contribute to their opinions. These members are mere point hunters. This type has to be taken care of by the moderators.
9 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic Nightmares and how they affect you..
bhuyali saroj wrote:
very less nightmares i have been encountered with but only some of them effected me because many of them i forget when i wake up
Most people are never able to recollect their dreams or nightmares , the more you focus and try to recollect, the farther it seems to go. Many studies have been conducted on this subject and the best advise given was to keep a paper and pen handy and write down everything you remember as soon as you wake up without trying to focus, so that at least some bits are remembered.This was done for study purpose and was apparently helpful.
9 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic In your opinion what is an ideal discussion ?.
I feel that a good discussion is one where members have freely aired their views on the subject being discussed and have contributed to the discussion.I will not say positive or negative because interpretations would be different to each member and it is difficult to draw the line! Sometimes the topic might be such that it might invite some controversial responses which should be taken by others in the right spirit. We are all adults here and can handle things , if not there are moderators to intervene and steer the discussion on its right track! Repetetive posts and ideas should be avoided ..A little bit of humor and wit is definitely welcome since we are not on a college campus !
9 years ago
chinmoymukherjee replied to the topic In your opinion what is an ideal discussion ?.
I love to be enlightened,informed and mischievously
controversial to draw the best out of my knowledgeable friends and the worst out of me! And if it is packaged in commanding wisdom and sparkling wit ,it is a generous bonus! Obviously mutual respect,dignity and openness make any discussion a truly stimulating and memorable experience.
9 years ago
suni51 said thank you to chinmoymukherjee for his/her reply to the topic Best 2 Ideas get Rs 20 each.
I don't know who are those bullies. I presume they must be weaker than me! A bully never gets attracted with their best or worst efforts and ultimately make themselves dispensable, redundant to thin away and out.But the question that merits serious consideration is if those who have entrusted with the job of discipling bullies have been up to their job?
9 years ago
suni51 replied to the topic Best 2 Ideas get Rs 20 each.
chinmoymukherjee wrote:
I don't know who are those bullies. I presume they must be weaker than me! A bully never gets attracted with their best or worst efforts and ultimately make themselves dispensable, redundant to thin away and out.But the question that merits serious consideration is if those who have entrusted with the job of discipling bullies have been up to their job?
I can assure you the people responsible are doing their best to keep the forums clean but it's for some of the existing rules which pose as hurdles. As soon as the rules are clear, the things will look different.
9 years ago
RAMAKRISHNAN. A replied to the topic Best 2 Ideas get Rs 20 each.
There should not be any distinction between new members and seniors. It is talents that count, not seniority. And many new members are highly talented and have been performing admirably in many other reputed sites. An equal treatment, with same rules for all, will definitely enhance the dignity of the site.
9 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic In your opinion what is an ideal discussion ?.
As far as comments are concerned, they should be lucid. Sometimes a bit of humor is alright, but such humorous comments should be linked with the content of the post. There should not be cryptic, mysterious and obscure .comments.
9 years ago
chinmoymukherjee replied to the topic Best 2 Ideas get Rs 20 each.
I don't know who are those bullies. I presume they must be weaker than me! A bully never gets attracted with their best or worst efforts and ultimately make themselves dispensable, redundant to thin away and out.But the question that merits serious consideration is if those who have entrusted with the job of discipling bullies have been up to their job?
9 years ago
rambabu liked a reply to the topic You can hold someone’s progress but can’t stop for forever..
9 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic You can hold someone’s progress but can’t stop for forever..
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani wrote:
This is competitive world. It is natural that competitors would not like you to progress. You go ahead in spite of obstructions. I may narrate a story here. Once a soldier suddenly laughed in the royal court. The king asked the soldier what made him laugh. The soldier refused to reply. The king ordered him to leave his kingdom. The soldier joined army of the neighboring state. The soldier got promoted as army chief within a year because of his merit. One day the king asked that soldier to make war with the adjoining state from where the soldier had been banished. Soon that soldier, now general of the neighboring state, waged a war against his former king. He won and the king was arrested. The king of the neighboring state was happy and he appointed him as his representative for ruling the state. The General (ex soldier of defeated king) said- sir, That day I had just day dreamed exactly what you are seeing today. If I had told that day that my dream is to become ruler of this state, you would have executed me.
This story just tells that there will always be obstructions on your path. Just work silently on your ambitions and you will succeed.
Well said with an apt example. Though it is a story, it has said about the truth . I agree with you it's but natural there will be impediments and hurdles in the path of one's existence. Wisdom lies in facing those adversities without running away from them
9 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic You can hold someone’s progress but can’t stop for forever..
To a certain extent most people like to be surrounded by flatterers even at work place this is true and this may get them some benefits and some minor perks , this may be in government offices but I doubt if it can progress much in private concerns. On the whole unless a person has capacity, I doubt if anyone would promote him/her based only on flattery . In today's world , work culture has reached quite a new kind of efficiency and unless you have a very capable staff you wil be left behind !
9 years ago
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani replied to the topic You can hold someone’s progress but can’t stop for forever..
This is competitive world. It is natural that competitors would not like you to progress. You go ahead in spite of obstructions. I may narrate a story here. Once a soldier suddenly laughed in the royal court. The king asked the soldier what made him laugh. The soldier refused to reply. The king ordered him to leave his kingdom. The soldier joined army of the neighboring state. The soldier got promoted as army chief within a year because of his merit. One day the king asked that soldier to make war with the adjoining state from where the soldier had been banished. Soon that soldier, now general of the neighboring state, waged a war against his former king. He won and the king was arrested. The king of the neighboring state was happy and he appointed him as his representative for ruling the state. The General (ex soldier of defeated king) said- sir, That day I had just day dreamed exactly what you are seeing today. If I had told that day that my dream is to become ruler of this state, you would have executed me.
This story just tells that there will always be obstructions on your path. Just work silently on your ambitions and you will succeed.
9 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic In your opinion what is an ideal discussion ?.
rambabu wrote:
All other other things you said are mostly being followed. The main problem is with those members who drag on, saying the same thing again and again and insist on making others contribute to their opinions. These members are mere point hunters. This type has to be taken care of by the moderators.
When someone drags on , others need not contribute ....As far as point hunting goes it is clear going by the weekly leader boards ..
Unless each member consciously curbs the instinct to post for the sake of doing so we will find discussions becoming boring and repetitive. Many discussions have more than 50% of the posts made by one member only and this demotivates others ! So, it depends on individual members to maintain a certain amount of discipline ..
9 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic Do some parts of Pakistan interested in joining India.
Yes sir it's the people ln PoK wanted to join the Indian territory. The chairman of the agitation confirmed this.
9 years ago
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani replied to the topic Do some parts of Pakistan interested in joining India.
India claims the entire Kashmir region including POK as Indian territory. It is a possibility that residents of POK may not be comfortable with their present conditions and would be happier in India.
9 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic Nightmares and how they affect you..
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani wrote:
I had nightmares during my childhood. I often saw dead body processions in sleep. For this reason only, my parents changed the house. Now I often see myself in awkward position in dream viz. without any clothing among guests. I also dream that I am falling from some high places or from stairs. But now I am not so scared. all is well.
Yes sir. these are all common night mares like being chased by a snake, missing the train and falling from a high mountain. These fears which we think in the conscious condition. And these fears go in to our subconscious. They surface up some day or other.
Good to know now you do not have such night mares.
9 years ago
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani replied to the topic Nightmares and how they affect you..
I had nightmares during my childhood. I often saw dead body processions in sleep. For this reason only, my parents changed the house. Now I often see myself in awkward position in dream viz. without any clothing among guests. I also dream that I am falling from some high places or from stairs. But now I am not so scared. all is well.
9 years ago
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani replied to the topic In your opinion what is an ideal discussion ?.
An ideal discussion means free and frank expression of views, responding to others' views, flexibility and restricting to scope of the point at issue. Flexibility is significant. If you are so rigid that yo cannot change your view in any circumstances, any discussion will be futile.
9 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic In your opinion what is an ideal discussion ?.
All other other things you said are mostly being followed. The main problem is with those members who drag on, saying the same thing again and again and insist on making others contribute to their opinions. These members are mere point hunters. This type has to be taken care of by the moderators.
9 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic Nightmares and how they affect you..
bhuyali saroj wrote:
very less nightmares i have been encountered with but only some of them effected me because many of them i forget when i wake up
Most people are never able to recollect their dreams or nightmares , the more you focus and try to recollect, the farther it seems to go. Many studies have been conducted on this subject and the best advise given was to keep a paper and pen handy and write down everything you remember as soon as you wake up without trying to focus, so that at least some bits are remembered.This was done for study purpose and was apparently helpful.
9 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic In your opinion what is an ideal discussion ?.
I feel that a good discussion is one where members have freely aired their views on the subject being discussed and have contributed to the discussion.I will not say positive or negative because interpretations would be different to each member and it is difficult to draw the line! Sometimes the topic might be such that it might invite some controversial responses which should be taken by others in the right spirit. We are all adults here and can handle things , if not there are moderators to intervene and steer the discussion on its right track! Repetetive posts and ideas should be avoided ..A little bit of humor and wit is definitely welcome since we are not on a college campus !
9 years ago
chinmoymukherjee replied to the topic In your opinion what is an ideal discussion ?.
I love to be enlightened,informed and mischievously
controversial to draw the best out of my knowledgeable friends and the worst out of me! And if it is packaged in commanding wisdom and sparkling wit ,it is a generous bonus! Obviously mutual respect,dignity and openness make any discussion a truly stimulating and memorable experience.
9 years ago
suni51 said thank you to chinmoymukherjee for his/her reply to the topic Best 2 Ideas get Rs 20 each.
I don't know who are those bullies. I presume they must be weaker than me! A bully never gets attracted with their best or worst efforts and ultimately make themselves dispensable, redundant to thin away and out.But the question that merits serious consideration is if those who have entrusted with the job of discipling bullies have been up to their job?
9 years ago
suni51 replied to the topic Best 2 Ideas get Rs 20 each.
chinmoymukherjee wrote:
I don't know who are those bullies. I presume they must be weaker than me! A bully never gets attracted with their best or worst efforts and ultimately make themselves dispensable, redundant to thin away and out.But the question that merits serious consideration is if those who have entrusted with the job of discipling bullies have been up to their job?
I can assure you the people responsible are doing their best to keep the forums clean but it's for some of the existing rules which pose as hurdles. As soon as the rules are clear, the things will look different.
9 years ago
RAMAKRISHNAN. A replied to the topic Best 2 Ideas get Rs 20 each.
There should not be any distinction between new members and seniors. It is talents that count, not seniority. And many new members are highly talented and have been performing admirably in many other reputed sites. An equal treatment, with same rules for all, will definitely enhance the dignity of the site.
9 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic In your opinion what is an ideal discussion ?.
As far as comments are concerned, they should be lucid. Sometimes a bit of humor is alright, but such humorous comments should be linked with the content of the post. There should not be cryptic, mysterious and obscure .comments.
9 years ago
chinmoymukherjee replied to the topic Best 2 Ideas get Rs 20 each.
I don't know who are those bullies. I presume they must be weaker than me! A bully never gets attracted with their best or worst efforts and ultimately make themselves dispensable, redundant to thin away and out.But the question that merits serious consideration is if those who have entrusted with the job of discipling bullies have been up to their job?
9 years ago